Share your experience moving from Alateen to Al‑Anon
June’s topic is, “Share your experience moving from Alateen to Al‑Anon.”
As always, you can also write about Al‑Anon’s three Legacies. This month features Step Six, Tradition Six, and Concept Six.
Sharings on the Member Blog may be used in future Al‑Anon publications.
New topics are being added each month!
I came into the program at 26 so I was too “old” for Alateen and I didn’t see a lot of peers in recovery in my early years. There were some, but I wouldn’t call it a community of young people or young people resources that I can connect with. I was told to look at the similarities and not the differences. Which at the time of 2005, that was the recovery solution to go by. Im grateful that my first home group didn’t make my age a big thing. Though sometimes I would get “you are so lucky” I… Read more »
What I receive from Step 6 is the kindness, patience, understanding, and acceptance of my Higher Power. I am asked to be “entirely ready” to have my defects removed. While I am getting ready to remove a defect, I pray, I meditate, I journal, I share at meetings, and I speak with trusted Al-Anon friends. I know I want the defect to be removed and I know myself enough to feel those old behaviors, patterns, and reactions come as my first thought. For me, I can feel the unease in my tummy. During these times, I ask my Higher Power… Read more »
Although, I was neve been in Alateen, I know that I would have needed it. When I first came to Al-Anon I used to say: “I came to Al-Anon, I was 34 going on 13” and this is exactly where I was. Today, after many 24 hours in Al-Anon, I still read the ALATEEN-a day at a time book every day, as part of my recovery. There are days when I feel I am this emotional, unreasonable teenager that has a short time in recovery. Other days, this book keeps me grounded with the basics of life that a mature… Read more »