This is a series of podcasts recorded as a quick “Introduction to Al‑Anon Meetings.”
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This is a series of podcasts recorded as a quick “Introduction to Al‑Anon Meetings.”
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Hi, my name is Regina. It was suggested to me by my friend, who is a member of Al-Anon and Alateen, to come and listen. So happy that you have made the podcast to help me see how this can benefit me. Thank you.
I have a 27-year-old daughter who is an alcoholic. Her father is also an alcoholic, but I divorced him before she was born, hoping she would be okay. She was so scared she would be like her father that she did not drink, smoke, or do drugs until last year. Her life fell apart. I found out her husband of seven years, and high school “sweetheart” was abusive to her. She fell for the married forever with the two kids and white picket fence story only to find out he was also an alcoholic and physically laid hands on her.… Read more »
My husband has been an alcoholic for years…many years. At first the excuse for excessive drinking was the stress from his job as a police officer, then it was stress caused by retirement, then it was stress from the adult kids, then bills, then the stressor was me, now it’s his back. There is always and excuse but the central focus is always his drinking. He lies, exaggerates, has alienated friends and family, he’s had one DUI where he hit someone with his vehicle, was arrested for assault, and I just found out he has not paid taxes for 7… Read more »
Wow. I believe I have landed in the right place. I am a 70-year old 2 time breast cancer survivor. I’ve just recently begun to feel a steep decline in my overall health, though I am cancer free. The reason I mention that is because I do believe that stress played a major part in my cancer diagnoses. I was married for 10 years to an alcoholic. We had two daughters before I divorced him. He was non-supportive and abusive. I did everything around the house, as well as work. I provided all the health care and paid the babysitter.… Read more »
I’ve always known my husband had some sort of drinking problem. He is in denial. My biggest concern is the fact he drinks while driving on his way home from work. I find bottles in his vehicle. This is not daily. I am most afraid he will cause an accident and hurt someone. I love him, he says he won’t get help. I’m lost.
My husband was angry when I said he was alcoholic. He has been one for as long as I have known him. He was actually shocked to hear it.
My 25 year old son has moved back in with me short term, 3 to 4 weeks until he goes through 3 to 4 weeks of counseling for alcohol, per he and his wife’s agreement. They haven’t lived in the same house at least 5 months of this year. A few weeks here, a couple of months there, etc. he doesn’t think I know what the counseling is for and “isn’t ready to talk yet”. He does go over every day to spend time with his children and wife. I’m having a hard time establishing and setting boundaries, using the… Read more »
My parents were both the children of Icelandic immigrants and both of their fathers were alcoholics. My grandfather committed suicide. My other alcoholic grandfather died at the age of 55. One uncle, a gifted doctor, died from an esophageal variceal hemorrhage after decades of alcohol abuse. One uncle, a gifted singer, drowned–drunk, in a swimming pool. One uncle, a cancer researcher, lost custody of his children because of the drinking (they were eventually sent to live with us, which caused many problems.) One aunty, a talented seamstress, quilter, artist, suffered severe agoraphobia, and ran out of a life changing interview with a… Read more »
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My now ex-husband has always chosen to spend time drinking at a bar. It was always a problem and I quit trying to change him a long time ago because he would get very defensive and abusive when I would bring it up. He even went through gallbladder surgery because of his addition to beer. There was and is no way to get him to admit he has any problem. His behaviors became so abusive that I am afraid for him to know where I am.
I want to change my reaction to my spouse’s drinking. I am full of anger for his choice everyday to drink and he keeps telling me he has cut back. I want to get out of this life.
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I just don’t know what to do anymore. Our only son has been through rehab twice (refused sober living housing both times) in the last year and has relapsed again:( This time my husband said he has two months to find another place to live or will be evicted because he refuses to get treatment. The agreement when he came home four months ago was he would stay sober, continue treatment and find a part time job. He agreed to these things knowing if we found alcohol in the house he would have to leave. He does not work, has… Read more »
I attended my first virtual meeting last night. Last week, as I was reading in the blue book (can’t remember the exact name), my heart sank when I realized that it’s not only my husband, who is an alcoholic, that needs help, but our entire family. He’s enjoyed drinking since I met him and was always fun and happy when he drank. He was really big and he could put it away, as they say. I thought his body size enabled him to drink more. I don’t know all the reasons why he turned into a mean drunk; I think… Read more »
I’m posting here for the first time today as a newcomer to Al-Anon and the community here. I don’t really know where to start so I will just start with this, my partner of three years is an alcoholic and recently his drinking has grown to an unmanageable level, and we are currently not living together as a result. We have one child together, who is mine from a previous relationship, however she has only known my partner as her father. When I met him he was not drinking at all, as he was still completing a federal jail sentence,… Read more »
I am posting for the first time today. My 36 year old son is an alcoholic, but does not admit that. I am trying to learn how to control my own anxiety and reactions to his drinking. He holds down a job and has never needed money, but is (in my opinion) living a life surrounded by drinking. When I am with him, all I do is worry about him falling, getting hurt, making a fool of himself… I know I can’t control him, but I definitely need help controlling my responses to his behavior. To make things worse, all… Read more »
Glad that somehow I reached out and found a mtg. I’ve been so angry in the past years and ruining relationships. I feel exhausted by living for my ex, trying to help him so my son can have his dad in his life. He lied to me so much and I feel so hurt and dumb for all I did. I loved him. I feel a bit lost. He has someone else now, and why wouldn’t he? I’m always angry. I wish I had been able to be stronger, but being in a relationship with this man was devastating to… Read more »
I was asked by my daughter and suggested by a friend of mine to attend an Al-Anon meeting. My daughter is an alcoholic. She is 36 yrs old and says she has had a problem for 10 yrs at least. It has cost her jobs, relationships etc. She has ruined family events, this past Christmas most recently, in fact. She reached a point on June 25 that she needed to stop drinking and go to AA. She reached out to a family friend who is sober and her brothers friend who is also sober. She became sober and went to… Read more »
I was told by a friend to try Al-Anon–due to the fact I’m newly married to a man who is 25 years sober–but he has these mean streaks, verbal abuse outburst which comes I noticed every couple of months–I would like to learn to make my self-esteem better and tools from other women for support.
I am new here. Registered today. My husband of 21 years, who probably had a drinking problem when we met, is now a full blown alcoholic. He was picked up for DWI in April with a BAL of .33 – this was his second. His first was 22 year ago. He was very apologetic and remorseful and did not drink for approximately 8 weeks. Once he could drive again, so did the drinking. I asked him to leave and let us have some time away but he refuses. He in in treatment, but has not been honest that he continues… Read more »