{"id":8075,"date":"2017-08-03T11:50:29","date_gmt":"2017-08-03T15:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=8075\/"},"modified":"2017-08-03T11:50:29","modified_gmt":"2017-08-03T15:50:29","slug":"je-pensais-trouver-une-solution-rapide-au-lieu-de-cela-jai-decouvert-un-mode-de-vie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-pensais-trouver-une-solution-rapide-au-lieu-de-cela-jai-decouvert-un-mode-de-vie\/","title":{"rendered":"Je pensais trouver une solution rapide \u2014 au lieu de cela, j\u2019ai d\u00e9couvert un mode de vie"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>En regardant en arri\u00e8re, lorsque j\u2019ai franchi les portes d\u2019Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019avais pr\u00e9vu de rester juste assez de temps pour d\u00e9couvrir comment obtenir le miracle de la sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 chez moi\u2026 Je suis toujours l\u00e0!<\/p>\n<p>Spirituellement, \u00e9motionnellement et physiquement, j\u2019\u00e9tais une \u00e9pave! Je n\u2019avais plus espoir en qui ou quoi que ce soit. Une amie m\u2019a emmen\u00e9e \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, mais j\u2019\u00e9tais convaincue que c\u2019\u00e9tait sans espoir.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, j\u2019\u00e9tais encore tr\u00e8s en col\u00e8re. Comment tous ces gens pouvaient-ils \u00eatre heureux et souriants? Leur foyer ne pouvait pas \u00eatre en pire \u00e9tat que le mien. Heureusement, je voulais moi aussi rire et sourire. Une membre, qui est plus tard devenue ma Marraine s\u2019est int\u00e9ress\u00e9e \u00e0 moi en tant que nouvelle venue et j\u2019ai continu\u00e9 d\u2019aller \u00e0 la r\u00e9union.<\/p>\n<p>Les slogans et tous ces outils m\u2019ennuyaient; aussi, je ne parlais jamais durant les r\u00e9unions. Je ne pensais pas avoir besoin de la Premi\u00e8re \u00c9tape car il n\u2019y avait aucun doute que je contr\u00f4lais la situation. Je n\u2019avais pas besoin de la Deuxi\u00e8me \u00c9tape parce que j\u2019\u00e9tais s\u00fbre de n\u2019avoir rien fait de mal, mais j\u2019ai n\u00e9anmoins pers\u00e9v\u00e9r\u00e9 dans Al\u2011Anon.<\/p>\n<p>Un soir, je suis all\u00e9e avec un groupe de femmes \u00e0 l\u2019anniversaire d\u2019un autre groupe. Il y avait deux conf\u00e9renciers, un pour Al\u2011Anon et un pour AA. Ce soir-l\u00e0, ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure m\u2019a \u00e9mue. Tout ce que j\u2019ai entendu l\u00e0-bas et tout ce qui avait \u00e9t\u00e9 partag\u00e9 dans les r\u00e9unions devenait enfin clair. J\u2019ai fini par comprendre ce qu\u2019\u00e9tait l\u2019impuissance, et j\u2019ai l\u00e2ch\u00e9 prise.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 prendre soin de moi et j\u2019ai donn\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019alcoolique le choix d\u2019obtenir de l\u2019aide ou de s\u2019en aller.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai travaill\u00e9 sur le programme quotidiennement \u2013 en particulier sur les \u00c9tapes et les Traditions. Tout est devenu plus facile. Cinq ans plus tard, nous avons \u00e9t\u00e9 t\u00e9moin du miracle de la sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 dans notre foyer et aujourd\u2019hui, nous mettons tous deux nos programmes en pratique. Toutefois, le v\u00e9ritable miracle, c\u2019est que j\u2019avais d\u00e9couvert qui je suis vraiment. Dans Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai appris \u00e0 changer mon mode vie et \u00e0 vivre pleinement.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par Bertie P., Floride<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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