{"id":48157,"date":"2026-08-27T09:40:58","date_gmt":"2026-08-27T13:40:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=48157"},"modified":"2026-08-27T09:40:58","modified_gmt":"2026-08-27T13:40:58","slug":"descendre-du-carrousel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/descendre-du-carrousel\/","title":{"rendered":"Descendre du carrousel"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Avant de rejoindre Al-Anon, deux carrousels tournaient \u00e0 toute vitesse dans ma vie, comme un \u00e9cho ou une vision double. L\u2019un tournait autour de mon fr\u00e8re a\u00een\u00e9 \u2013 lui aussi gravement touch\u00e9 par l\u2019alcoolisme \u2013 qui avait commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 reproduire la maladie de notre p\u00e8re en devenant violent envers notre m\u00e8re et moi. De mon c\u00f4t\u00e9, je tournais sur l\u2019autre carrousel, adoptant le m\u00eame comportement que notre m\u00e8re malade face \u00e0 notre p\u00e8re. Nous agissions tous les deux comme des automates, sans v\u00e9ritable choix conscient.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, j\u2019ai pris conscience, avec force, que nous n\u2019\u00e9tions pas les seuls, en tant que famille, \u00e0 \u00eatre pris dans ce genre de man\u00e8ge. \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9poque, la brochure <a href=\"https:\/\/ecomm.al-anon.org\/ItemDetail?iProductCode=FP3&amp;Category=FRENCH\"><em>L\u2019alcoolisme, carrousel de la n\u00e9gation <\/em>(FP-3)<\/a> faisait partie de l\u2019\u00e9tui pour les nouveaux venus. Si on ne me l&rsquo;avait pas donn\u00e9e, je doute que j\u2019aurais remis en question mon comportement, et encore moins reconnu les r\u00f4les qui nous \u00e9taient attribu\u00e9s au sein de la famille. Je suis donc reconnaissant d\u2019<em>avoir<\/em> assist\u00e9 \u00e0 cette r\u00e9union, mais tout autant <em>d\u2019avoir <\/em>pris conscience de cette r\u00e9alit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que je puisse comprendre la port\u00e9e de l\u2019alcoolisme au-del\u00e0 de la vision \u00e9troite et partielle que j\u2019avais de moi-m\u00eame, je n\u2019en serais jamais \u00ab venu \u00e0 croire \u00bb, comme le stipule la <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/deuxieme-etape\/\">Deuxi\u00e8me \u00c9tape<\/a>, qu\u2019une Puissance sup\u00e9rieure \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame pouvait, ou allait, me rendre la raison. J\u2019appelle cette compr\u00e9hension <em>une prise de conscience<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Ma r\u00e9flexion du jour est la suivante\u00a0: la perspicacit\u00e9, c\u2019est la capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre clairement, sans distorsion, pourquoi je fais ce que je fais. Cette lucidit\u00e9 je la re\u00e7ois gr\u00e2ce aux conseils de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure et \u00e0 Ses intentions bienveillantes \u00e0 mon \u00e9gard et envers ma famille.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Gregg L.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>ao\u00fbt 2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>VOUS POUVEZ reproduire cet article sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,223,221],"tags":[433,652],"class_list":["post-48157","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","tag-enfants-adultes","tag-prise-de-conscience"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.5 - 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