{"id":4797,"date":"2016-06-08T15:27:20","date_gmt":"2016-06-08T19:27:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4797\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T14:28:10","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T18:28:10","slug":"ma-vie-etait-devenue-incontrolable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/ma-vie-etait-devenue-incontrolable\/","title":{"rendered":"Ma vie \u00e9tait devenue incontr\u00f4lable"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Je me rappelle parfaitement ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al\u2011Anon. \u00c0 cause de la maladie progressive de l\u2019alcoolisme chez un \u00eatre cher, je suis soudainement devenu le p\u00e8re c\u00e9libataire d\u2019un fils adolescent et d\u2019une fille pr\u00e9adolescente. Ma vie \u00e9tait chaotique, j\u2019avais l\u2019impression de faire naufrage, et je ne savais ni quoi dire ni quoi penser. Rien n\u2019avait plus ni queue ni t\u00eate&#8230; Ma vie \u00e9tait devenue incontr\u00f4lable !<\/p>\n<p>Ce soir\u2011l\u00e0, alors que j\u2019\u00e9tais en train de me garer pour aller \u00e0 la r\u00e9union, j\u2019ai dit \u00e0 mes enfants : \u00ab Je ne sais pas quoi attendre de ce programme Al\u2011Anon, mais je sais que nous avons besoin de quelque chose, et j\u2019esp\u00e8re vraiment qu\u2019on pourra nous aider. Allons\u2011y ! \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Quand nous sommes entr\u00e9s dans la salle, une jeune femme \u00e9tait en train de disposer des livres sur la table, \u00e0 qui j\u2019ai demand\u00e9 : \u00ab Suis bien au bon endroit ? \u00bb\u00a0 Elle m\u2019a \u00e9cout\u00e9, alors que je lui racontais mes probl\u00e8mes en b\u00e9gayant. Remarquant l\u2019expression de panique, de tristesse et de d\u00e9sespoir que j\u2019avais dans les yeux, elle m\u2019a dit : \u00ab Ah oui, il n\u2019y a pas de doute. Vous \u00eates au bon endroit. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Elle m\u2019a un peu expliqu\u00e9 ce qu\u2019\u00e9tait Al\u2011Anon, a dit \u00e0 mes enfants qu\u2019ils pouvaient aller \u00e0 la r\u00e9union Alateen et que je pouvais m\u2019asseoir \u00e0 la r\u00e9union Al\u2011Anon l\u00e0 o\u00f9 je voulais. Je me suis assis au dernier rang et j\u2019ai attendu.<\/p>\n<p>L\u2019ouverture de la r\u00e9union \u00e9tait un m\u00e9lange de voix et de personnes parlant de choses diverses. Au d\u00e9but, j\u2019avais du mal \u00e0 me concentrer, mais \u00e0 mesure que j\u2019entendais les t\u00e9moignages, les histoires et les exp\u00e9riences personnelles, j\u2019ai ressenti quelque chose.<\/p>\n<p>Je ressentais quelque chose dans le c\u0153ur et apr\u00e8s avoir \u00e9cout\u00e9 trois ou quatre personnes donner leur t\u00e9moignage, j\u2019ai compris ce qu\u2019\u00e9tait ce sentiment : c\u2019\u00e9tait l\u2019espoir. 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