{"id":4649,"date":"2017-04-01T16:14:05","date_gmt":"2017-04-01T21:14:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4649\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T11:57:19","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:57:19","slug":"pour-la-deuxieme-fois-un-nouveau-venu-lutte-contre-un-sentiment-de-culpabilite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/pour-la-deuxieme-fois-un-nouveau-venu-lutte-contre-un-sentiment-de-culpabilite\/","title":{"rendered":"Pour la deuxi\u00e8me fois, un nouveau venu lutte contre un sentiment de culpabilit\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div class=\"itemIntroText\">\n<p>Il y a plusieurs ann\u00e9es de cela, ma s\u0153ur m\u2019a demand\u00e9 de l\u2019emmener dans une r\u00e9union A.A. Quelle surprise! Il n\u2019en \u00e9tait pas question. Et si quelqu\u2019un me voyait? Non, pas moi, jamais. J\u2019avais un bon travail dans une des 500 soci\u00e9t\u00e9s de la revue Fortune.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"itemFullText\">\n<p>J\u2019ai appris que la politique de la compagnie \u00e9tait de licencier, en dernier recours, toute personne ayant un probl\u00e8me de consommation d&rsquo;alcool. Le r\u00e8glement stipulait que les employ\u00e9s devaient rechercher la r\u00e9habilitation par l\u2019entremise d&rsquo;un programme en Douze \u00c9tapes.Le fait de conna\u00eetre la politique m\u2019a donn\u00e9 un courage que je ne pensais pas poss\u00e9der en moi. La premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union \u00e0 laquelle j\u2019ai accompagn\u00e9 ma s\u0153ur m\u2019a fait un choc \u2013 compl\u00e8tement diff\u00e9rent de ce \u00e0 quoi je m&rsquo;attendais. \u00c0 ma deuxi\u00e8me r\u00e9union avec un autre groupe, j\u2019ai eu la m\u00eame exp\u00e9rience \u2013 amour attentionn\u00e9, apaisant et serein.<\/p>\n<p>Le fait de conna\u00eetre la politique m\u2019a donn\u00e9 un courage que je ne pensais pas poss\u00e9der en moi. La premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union \u00e0 laquelle j\u2019ai accompagn\u00e9 ma s\u0153ur m\u2019a fait un choc \u2013 c\u2019\u00e9tait compl\u00e8tement diff\u00e9rent de ce \u00e0 quoi je m&rsquo;attendais. \u00c0 ma deuxi\u00e8me r\u00e9union avec un autre groupe, j\u2019ai eu la m\u00eame exp\u00e9rience \u2013 amour attentionn\u00e9, apaisant et serein.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai demand\u00e9 aux membres A.A. comment je pouvais moi aussi en arriver l\u00e0. C&rsquo;est ce que je voulais. C\u2019est ce dont j\u2019avais besoin. Leur r\u00e9ponse a \u00e9t\u00e9 : \u00ab Avec Al-Anon. C\u2019est la pi\u00e8ce \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019\u00e9tais persuad\u00e9 d\u2019avoir caus\u00e9 le probl\u00e8me de consommation d\u2019alcool de ma s\u0153ur parce que j\u2019avais l\u2019habitude de la taquiner jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce qu\u2019elle en pleure.<\/p>\n<p>Les r\u00e9unions Al-Anon \u00e9taient accueillantes, aimantes, attentionn\u00e9es, tout simplement formidables. Ma femme assistait \u00e0 deux r\u00e9unions par semaine et elle les aimait tant qu\u2019elle et quelques-unes de ses amies Al-Anon ont form\u00e9 un groupe se r\u00e9unissant chez nous pendant la journ\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>De l\u2019avancement, un d\u00e9m\u00e9nagement et enfin la maladie prolong\u00e9e suivie du d\u00e9c\u00e8s pr\u00e9matur\u00e9 de ma femme, m\u2019ont pouss\u00e9 \u00e0 m\u2019\u00e9loigner du programme. Bien que je n&rsquo;assistais pas aux r\u00e9unions, je pense que la force que j&rsquo;ai gagn\u00e9e \u00e0 Al-Anon m&rsquo;a maintenu en vie \u00e0 travers une p\u00e9riode tr\u00e8s difficile, et pourtant tr\u00e8s belle de ma vie.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s de nombreuses ann\u00e9es, je suis de retour \u00e0 Al-Anon. Peut-\u00eatre ne suis-je pas loquace parce que je suis g\u00ean\u00e9 de n&rsquo;avoir pas assist\u00e9 aux r\u00e9unions pendant si longtemps, mais je m\u2019y plais. Pour l\u2019instant, je veux tout simplement redonner ce que j\u2019ai re\u00e7u en \u00e9coutant, en \u00e9coutant vraiment et en apprenant. Lorsque j\u2019en trouverai le courage, je partagerai ce qui m\u2019a aid\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par Stan B., Nouveau-Mexique<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[223],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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