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\u00ab J\u2019ai appris une chose : \u00e0 ne pas m\u2019apitoyer sur le sort de l\u2019alcoolique. \u00bb<\/h4>\n

Je passais la majeure partie de mon temps \u00e0 penser et \u00e0 m\u2019inqui\u00e9ter pour mon fils. Que pouvait-il bien \u00eatre en train de faire? Je dormais peu parce que j\u2019attendais qu\u2019il rentre sain et sauf. Quand il a quitt\u00e9 le domicile familial, j\u2019ai d\u00e9velopp\u00e9 du ressentiment. Je continuais \u00e0 m\u2019inqui\u00e9ter de son bien-\u00eatre. Je ne cessais de pleurer et je me pr\u00e9cipitais vers le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone chaque fois que je l\u2019entendais sonner.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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J\u2019ai encore du chemin \u00e0 faire, mais Al-Anon me rend plus forte. Je fais en sorte de finir ma journ\u00e9e sans me faire du mauvais sang pour mon fils. J\u2019ai encore de la tristesse au c\u0153ur, surtout lorsque je pense \u00e0 ma belle-fille et \u00e0 ma petite-fille. Je vois bien que mon fils fait de son mieux, mais je suis t\u00e9moin de la spirale infernale que l\u2019alcool peut cr\u00e9er. Je ne verse plus de larmes \u00e0 cause de mon fils. Au contraire, je tourne mon attention vers ma belle-fille et ma petite-fille. J\u2019essaie de me concentrer sur moi.Je me suis rendu compte que vivre dans le contexte de l\u2019alcoolisme m\u2019avait pouss\u00e9e \u00e0 refouler mes sentiments et les mauvais souvenirs de mon enfance. J\u2019ai aussi r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que cette maladie pouvait \u00eatre brutale. Mais j\u2019ai appris une chose : \u00e0 ne pas m\u2019apitoyer sur le sort de l\u2019alcoolique.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 r\u00e9agir diff\u00e9remment aux cons\u00e9quences de la consommation d\u2019alcool de mon fils. Lorsque les choses tournent mal, je n\u2019interviens plus. Je n\u2019essaie pas de trouver une solution \u00e0 ses probl\u00e8mes. Je n\u2019essaie plus de l\u2019aider \u00e0 corriger les cons\u00e9quences de sa consommation d\u2019alcool. Il se peut qu\u2019il comprenne les cons\u00e9quences de ses actions s\u2019il y fait face lui-m\u00eame.<\/p>\n

Au lieu de r\u00e9agir \u00e0 la maladie de mon fils, j\u2019offre mon amour au b\u00e9b\u00e9 et, chaque jour, je demande \u00e0 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure de me donner le courage de continuer. Je suis heureuse d\u2019avoir d\u00e9couvert Al-Anon.<\/p>\n

Par Dianne, Ontario<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>

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