{"id":4585,"date":"2017-04-27T15:38:47","date_gmt":"2017-04-27T20:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4585\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T11:49:23","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:49:23","slug":"une-femme-brise-le-cercle-vicieux-des-relations-abusives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/une-femme-brise-le-cercle-vicieux-des-relations-abusives\/","title":{"rendered":"Une femme brise le cercle vicieux des relations abusives"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div class=\"itemIntroText\">\n<p>\u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9poque o\u00f9 j\u2019ai tent\u00e9 d\u2019adh\u00e9rer \u00e0 Al-Anon, j\u2019\u00e9tais (une fois de plus) dans une relation o\u00f9 j\u2019\u00e9tais victime d\u2019abus verbal. J\u2019avais entendu dire que le programme pourrait m\u2019aider \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre mes probl\u00e8mes. Je suis all\u00e9e \u00e0 une r\u00e9union et j\u2019ai demand\u00e9 \u00e0 une femme si l\u2019adh\u00e9sion exigeait que je connaisse une personne qui buvait. Elle a r\u00e9pondu par l\u2019affirmative. D\u00e9moralis\u00e9e, j\u2019ai t\u00e9l\u00e9phon\u00e9 au bureau central de ma Circonscription \u00e0 qui j\u2019ai pos\u00e9 la m\u00eame question. J\u2019ai re\u00e7u la m\u00eame r\u00e9ponse.<\/p>\n<p>Dix ans plus tard, ayant v\u00e9cu deux relations obsessionnelles et violentes, c\u2019est \u00e0 contrec\u0153ur que je suis retourn\u00e9e \u00e0 une r\u00e9union Al-Anon, en priant que, cette fois-ci, je correspondais au profil. Ma derni\u00e8re relation amoureuse qui avait tourn\u00e9 au d\u00e9sastre avait \u00e9t\u00e9 avec un homme qui avait d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de cesser de boire treize ans plus t\u00f4t. Je ne savais pas si cela faisait de lui un alcoolique, mais j\u2019ai pens\u00e9 que cela me permettrait de me faire accepter. J\u2019\u00e9tais \u00e0 bout.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"itemFullText\">\n<p>J\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 soulag\u00e9e que personne ne me pose de questions. La femme \u00e0 qui j\u2019avais demand\u00e9 de me parrainer ne m\u2019a pas demand\u00e9 si je connaissais des alcooliques. J\u2019ai fini par lui raconter ce qui s\u2019\u00e9tait pass\u00e9 dix ans plus t\u00f4t. Elle a secou\u00e9 la t\u00eate en signe de d\u00e9sarroi et m\u2019a dit si une personne se pr\u00e9sente \u00e0 la r\u00e9union et s\u2019identifie au programme, c\u2019est qu\u2019elle a besoin d\u2019\u00eatre l\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Cela fait maintenant cinq ann\u00e9es que j\u2019assiste aux r\u00e9unions et que je mets les \u00c9tapes en pratique. Le programme a transform\u00e9 ma vie. Je ne sais toujours pas s\u2019il y a des alcooliques dans ma famille, mais je pense que je me trouve au bon endroit puisque je fr\u00e9quente un homme charmant qui a d\u00e9couvert la sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 dans AA depuis onze ans d\u00e9j\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Il est inutile d\u2019ajouter que j\u2019accueille les nouveaux venus \u00e0 bras ouverts et que lorsqu\u2019ils me demandent s\u2019ils sont au bon endroit, je leur r\u00e9ponds que c\u2019est \u00e0 eux de d\u00e9cider. Je les encourage \u00e0 essayer plusieurs r\u00e9unions et je leur dis que s\u2019ils ont le sentiment d\u2019\u00eatre \u00e0 leur place, ils y sont.<\/p>\n<p>Je sais maintenant que j\u2019\u00e9tais all\u00e9e au bon endroit il y a de cela plusieurs ann\u00e9es. Chacune de mes relations ant\u00e9rieures avait \u00e9t\u00e9 compliqu\u00e9e parce qu\u2019elles impliquaient des enfants adultes d\u2019alcooliques. L\u2019alcoolisme avait en effet laiss\u00e9 une empreinte profonde dans ma vie. C\u2019est tout simplement que je l\u2019ignorais \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Anonyme<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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