{"id":45749,"date":"2025-08-14T11:50:02","date_gmt":"2025-08-14T15:50:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=45749"},"modified":"2025-08-14T11:50:02","modified_gmt":"2025-08-14T15:50:02","slug":"jai-dissocie-mon-mari-de-la-maladie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/jai-dissocie-mon-mari-de-la-maladie\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u2019ai dissoci\u00e9 mon mari de la maladie"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>L&rsquo;alcoolisme de mon mari a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 s&rsquo;aggraver apr\u00e8s la mort de sa m\u00e8re. Un soir, alors qu&rsquo;il rentrait de chez les voisins, il avait tellement de mal \u00e0 marcher qu&rsquo;il lui \u00e9tait m\u00eame difficile de se tenir debout. Il \u00e9tait l\u00e0, pench\u00e9 en avant, debout \u00e0 l&rsquo;entr\u00e9e de la porte. Lorsqu&rsquo;il a lev\u00e9 les yeux vers moi, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 boulevers\u00e9e par ce que j&rsquo;ai vu dans ses yeux. J&rsquo;ai vu un m\u00e9lange d\u00e9chirant de douleur, de confusion et de peur. Il avait l&rsquo;air compl\u00e8tement perdu, comme s&rsquo;il s&rsquo;\u00e9tait \u00e9gar\u00e9 dans un monde qu&rsquo;il ne comprenait pas.<\/p>\n<p>Je n&rsquo;avais pas vu beaucoup d&rsquo;\u00e9motions, voire aucune, dans ses yeux lorsqu&rsquo;il buvait, mais \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, en un seul instant d\u00e9vastateur, j&rsquo;ai vu toute l&rsquo;\u00e9tendue de sa souffrance. La brutalit\u00e9 de la maladie a \u00e9t\u00e9 mise \u00e0 nu, transformant l&rsquo;homme que j&rsquo;aimais. Dans ses yeux, j&rsquo;ai vu \u00e0 la fois la pr\u00e9sence de mon mari et l&#8217;emprise implacable de l&rsquo;alcoolisme, une emprise qu&rsquo;il voulait d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment briser.<\/p>\n<p>Ce moment de compr\u00e9hension, o\u00f9 j&rsquo;ai vraiment dissoci\u00e9 la maladie de la personne, a \u00e9t\u00e9 un tournant pour moi. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 submerg\u00e9e par la compassion. Apr\u00e8s ce moment, j&rsquo;ai travaill\u00e9 tr\u00e8s dur pour me d\u00e9tacher avec amour. Jusqu&rsquo;alors, j&rsquo;avais pratiqu\u00e9 le d\u00e9tachement, mais je dois admettre qu&rsquo;une grande partie de mon d\u00e9tachement s&rsquo;\u00e9tait faite dans l&rsquo;indiff\u00e9rence. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais devenue quelque peu insensible \u00e0 la consommation d&rsquo;alcool et au chaos qu&rsquo;elle avait provoqu\u00e9. Je suis devenue plus gentille et plus attentionn\u00e9e. J&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 le traiter avec la m\u00eame dignit\u00e9 et le m\u00eame respect que j&rsquo;avais appris lors des r\u00e9unions Al-Anon. Ce changement d&rsquo;attitude et de comportement m&rsquo;a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 soutenir le cheminement de mon mari vers la sobri\u00e9t\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Beth K.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>ao\u00fbt 2025<\/p>\n<p><strong>VOUS POUVEZ reproduire cet article sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[591,604,527,652],"class_list":["post-45749","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","tag-changements-dattitude","tag-compassion-fr","tag-detachment-fr","tag-prise-de-conscience"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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