{"id":43753,"date":"2024-11-01T14:09:30","date_gmt":"2024-11-01T18:09:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=43753"},"modified":"2024-11-01T14:10:17","modified_gmt":"2024-11-01T18:10:17","slug":"du-reconfort-dans-une-situation-difficile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/du-reconfort-dans-une-situation-difficile\/","title":{"rendered":"Du r\u00e9confort dans une situation difficile"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>\u00ab Tu es dans une situation difficile en ce moment \u00bb, m&rsquo;a dit mon Parrain alors que nous marchions ensemble avant notre r\u00e9union. Je lui avais demand\u00e9 de me rejoindre 30 minutes plus t\u00f4t pour m&rsquo;aider \u00e0 trouver un terrain d&rsquo;entente. Mon fr\u00e8re \u00e9tait mort quatre jours plus t\u00f4t, et ma compagne s&rsquo;enfon\u00e7ait elle-m\u00eame dans la spirale de l&rsquo;alcool. La violence et le chaos dominaient ma vie familiale. Ni moi ni mon fils ne nous sentions en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 chez nous. J&rsquo;avais juste besoin d&rsquo;un espace pour partager notre chagrin, mais je ne le trouvais pas. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais membre Al-Anon depuis huit ans, et malgr\u00e9 tout, je me retrouvais face \u00e0 une nouvelle version de cette maladie d\u00e9concertante, rus\u00e9e et puissante, \u00e0 un moment o\u00f9 je n&rsquo;avais pas l&rsquo;\u00e9nergie \u00e9motionnelle n\u00e9cessaire pour y faire face.<\/p>\n<p>Pourtant, les simples mots de mon Parrain m&rsquo;ont aid\u00e9 \u00e0 trouver un peu de lumi\u00e8re et \u00e0 rassembler tout ce que j&rsquo;avais appris dans le programme Al-Anon. <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/cinquieme-tradition\/\">La Cinqui\u00e8me Tradition<\/a> stipule que le seul but d&rsquo;Al-Anon est d\u2019\u00ab aider les familles des alcooliques \u00bb en les accueillant et en les r\u00e9confortant.<\/p>\n<p>Il m&rsquo;a accueilli dans la conversation en me consacrant du temps et me rencontrant \u00e0 l\u2019avance dans un d\u00e9lai tr\u00e8s court. Je comptais pour lui. Sans m&rsquo;interrompre Il m&rsquo;a permis de partager ce \u00e0 quoi je faisais face, comme nous le faisons lors de nos r\u00e9unions. J&rsquo;ai divagu\u00e9 et pleur\u00e9, et il m&rsquo;a laiss\u00e9 faire. Je me suis senti r\u00e9confort\u00e9 par son \u00e9coute. Il a entendu ma douleur et m&rsquo;a r\u00e9pondu en me disant comment il me voyait\u00a0: \u00ab Tu es&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb, mais il ne m&rsquo;a pas prodigu\u00e9 de conseils ni dit quoi faire. Son r\u00e9confort discret m&rsquo;a donn\u00e9 un peu de puissance dans une situation o\u00f9 je me sentais impuissant. Je me suis \u00e9galement senti moins seul, ce qui est une des principales raisons pour lesquelles nous \u00ab\u00a0revenons\u00a0\u00bb \u00e0 nos r\u00e9unions.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0, je n&rsquo;ai pas r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que ses trois derniers mots \u00e9taient \u00e9galement cruciaux\u00a0: \u00ab en ce moment \u00bb. Cette p\u00e9riode m&rsquo;a sembl\u00e9 interminable pendant qu&rsquo;elle se d\u00e9roulait. C&rsquo;\u00e9tait accablant de ressentir tant de choses d&rsquo;un seul coup, mais les sentiments ne sont pas des faits. Mon Parrain savait que mes sentiments finiraient par dispara\u00eetre. Et c&rsquo;est exactement ce qui s&rsquo;est pass\u00e9. Cela n&rsquo;a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 facile, mais j&rsquo;ai mieux rebondi gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 mon programme et \u00e0 son objectif d&rsquo;\u00ab accueillir et r\u00e9conforter les familles des alcooliques \u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Charley B.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>octobre 2024<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue\u00a0<em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[751,771],"class_list":["post-43753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","tag-deuil","tag-impuissance"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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