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En 2017, je mesurais 1,57 m et je pesais 53 kg. Mon fils d\u20191,83 m pesait 52,6 kg. Le tourbillon de confusion et de chaos dans ma t\u00eate \u00e9tait omnipr\u00e9sent, ce qui rendait difficile tout dialogue. Chaque limite que je fixais \u00e9tait franchie, et je ne disais rien. Chaque fois que je cherchais des excuses pour mon fils, je devenais de plus en plus rancuni\u00e8re. Et chaque jour, au moins deux ou trois fois, je lui demandais\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Est-ce que tout va bien?\u00a0\u00bb. Bien que ma relation avec mon fils n’ait jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 instable ou dangereuse, elle n’a jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 honn\u00eate. Je l’aimais presqu\u2019\u00e0 en mourir!<\/p>\n

Mais un jour, en ouvrant la bouche, ces mots sont sortis\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je t’aime tellement, mais je ne peux plus te voir agir comme \u00e7a. Et je ne peux pas te mettre dehors; il faut que tu arr\u00eates ou que tu t’en ailles\u00a0\u00bb. Je ne connaissais pas Al\u2011Anon \u00e0 cette \u00e9poque, mais je suis certaine que j’avais une Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, car c’est Elle qui m’a mis ces mots dans la bouche. Ce fut le d\u00e9but de mon parcours vers la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 et, \u00e0 la suggestion d’un conseiller familial, j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions Al\u2011Anon. Celui-ci m’a \u00e9galement sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 de me renseigner sur la maladie de l’alcoolisme.<\/p>\n

Lors de ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al\u2011Anon, j’ai pleur\u00e9, j’ai parl\u00e9 \u00e0 tort et \u00e0 travers, je fixais le mur \u2013 j’\u00e9tais compl\u00e8tement engourdie. Mais j’ai entendu que je n’\u00e9tais pas la cause de la maladie, que je ne pouvais pas la contr\u00f4ler et que je n\u2019en connaissais pas la cure, et on m’a donn\u00e9 le livre dont j’avais besoin\u00a0: Comment Al-Anon \u0153uvre pour les familles et les amis des alcooliques<\/em> (FB-32)<\/a>. Ce livre m’a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 comprendre le programme, mais j’avais encore besoin d’en savoir plus sur la maladie.<\/p>\n

J’ai lu des articles, \u00e9cout\u00e9 des balados et parl\u00e9 \u00e0 des alcooliques en r\u00e9habilitation, mais lorsque j’ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 une conf\u00e9rence sur l’aspect neurophysiologique de la maladie et que j’ai vu des images du cerveau et de la r\u00e9gion qui active l’\u00e9tat de manque, tout s\u2019est \u00e9clair\u00e9! Je comprenais maintenant que mon fils disait la v\u00e9rit\u00e9 lorsqu’il affirmait qu’il ne faisait pas cela pour me faire du mal. Je pouvais voir la peur dans ses yeux et je me suis rendu compte qu’il \u00e9tait aussi d\u00e9sempar\u00e9 que moi quant \u00e0 la raison pour laquelle il ne pouvait pas arr\u00eater de boire.<\/p>\n

Al-Anon \u00e9tait l\u00e0 pour me guider dans tout cela. Si je voulais commencer \u00e0 me r\u00e9tablir, je devais mieux comprendre de quoi je me r\u00e9tablissais. L’image visuelle lors de cette conf\u00e9rence m’a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 mieux comprendre la maladie de mon fils, et Al-Anon m’a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 comprendre les cons\u00e9quences qu\u2019elle avait sur moi. Je m\u00e8ne aujourd’hui une vie relativement sereine parce que j’ai pris en compte les suggestions des Douze \u00c9tapes et que j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 les mettre en pratique.<\/p>\n

En pla\u00e7ant ma confiance en Al-Anon et en ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, j’ai acquis le courage d’appliquer les Douze \u00c9tapes \u00e0 ma vie. Chaque fois que j’obtiens un nouvel aper\u00e7u ou une compr\u00e9hension plus profonde, m\u00eame si c’est douloureux ou difficile, ma confiance augmente. Mon fils est abstinent depuis quatre ans et demi. Nous avons une bonne relation dans laquelle nous parlons le m\u00eame langage\u00a0: l’honn\u00eatet\u00e9<\/em>. En m’informant sur cette maladie rus\u00e9e, d\u00e9concertante et puissante et sur ses cons\u00e9quences sur toute la famille, je trouve maintenant facile de d\u00e9tester la maladie et d’aimer mon fils.<\/p>\n

Par Judy D.<\/em><\/p>\n

The Forum, mai 2024<\/em><\/p>\n

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Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>

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