{"id":41180,"date":"2024-02-09T12:42:01","date_gmt":"2024-02-09T17:42:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=41180"},"modified":"2024-02-09T12:42:01","modified_gmt":"2024-02-09T17:42:01","slug":"grandir-la-ou-je-suis-plantee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/grandir-la-ou-je-suis-plantee\/","title":{"rendered":"Grandir l\u00e0 o\u00f9 je suis plant\u00e9e"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Quand je suis entr\u00e9e dans une salle Al\u2011Anon pour la premi\u00e8re fois, je l\u2019ai sans doute fait pour les mauvaises raisons, la curiosit\u00e9 \u00e9tant la principale. Aujourd\u2019hui, je reconnais et je comprends que je suis rest\u00e9e pour toutes les bonnes. J\u2019ai entendu dire dans ces salles de r\u00e9unions que nous grandissons l\u00e0 o\u00f9 nous sommes plant\u00e9s, et c\u2019est exactement de cette fa\u00e7on que je per\u00e7ois mon exp\u00e9rience dans ce beau programme.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai grandi dans un foyer et au sein d\u2019une famille o\u00f9 l\u2019alcool \u00e9tait toujours le bienvenu. En fait, c\u2019\u00e9tait un invit\u00e9 qui restait souvent plus longtemps qu\u2019on ne l\u2019aurait souhait\u00e9. Mon comportement envers ceux qui consommaient des quantit\u00e9s excessives d\u2019alcool \u00e9tait irrespectueux et compl\u00e8tement irrationnel. J\u2019\u00e9tais aussi agit\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019ext\u00e9rieur qu\u2019\u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur. Je ressentais de la rancune envers tous les alcooliques qui faisaient partie de ma vie et j\u2019ai ressenti un sentiment extr\u00eame de soulagement quand, un par un, ils sont d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Mes d\u00e9fauts de caract\u00e8re \u00e9taient grav\u00e9s sur mon c\u0153ur et mon \u00e2me comme des tatouages permanents. Le manque de confiance, un besoin de contr\u00f4le et un ego obstin\u00e9 avaient g\u00e9r\u00e9 ma vie pendant longtemps, alors quand on m\u2019a demand\u00e9 de faire du travail de service \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai dout\u00e9 de moi. Je n\u2019ai jamais cru que j\u2019avais ce qu\u2019il fallait, et mon ego ne me permettait pas de commettre d\u2019erreur. Cependant, j\u2019ai appris cette phrase qui dit que \u00ab\u00a0le travail de service ne remplace pas le r\u00e9tablissement\u00a0\u00bb, ce qui signifie que mon service dans Al\u2011Anon d\u00e9pend de mon sain r\u00e9tablissement. Comme il est beau que le r\u00e9tablissement me conduise \u00e0 accepter les autres comme ils sont, au lieu d\u2019\u00e9prouver du ressentiment \u00e0 leur \u00e9gard pour ce qu\u2019ils ne sont pas (pour moi).<\/p>\n<p>Ma croissance dans le r\u00e9tablissement et ma croissance dans le service se sont mutuellement enrichies. J\u2019ai constat\u00e9 avec mon exp\u00e9rience qu\u2019il n\u2019y a certainement pas de confort dans la zone de croissance et pas de croissance dans la zone de confort. J\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 confront\u00e9e \u00e0 nombre de d\u00e9fis diff\u00e9rents, comme de saisons diff\u00e9rentes. Travailler avec les autres, servir dans un environnement d\u2019amour et utiliser le code Al\u2011Anon de l\u2019\u00e9change aimant s\u2019av\u00e9raient des t\u00e2ches difficiles pour quelqu\u2019un comme moi qui avait pass\u00e9 la majeure partie de sa vie \u00e0 crier pour \u00eatre entendue, et pourtant, toutes ces choses sont devenues possibles.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s avoir servi en tant que D\u00e9l\u00e9gu\u00e9e de Circonscription, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9lue membre du Conseil d\u2019Administration des Services g\u00e9n\u00e9raux. Cette exp\u00e9rience m\u2019a vraiment touch\u00e9e. Il ne m\u2019avait pas travers\u00e9 l\u2019esprit que j\u2019\u00e9tais digne d\u2019un tel r\u00f4le. Encore une fois, <em>je<\/em> ne me faisais pas confiance! Lorsque j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9lue Pr\u00e9sidente du Conseil d\u2019Administration et D\u00e9l\u00e9gu\u00e9e de la RISGA, je suis rest\u00e9e bouche b\u00e9e. Des larmes ont perl\u00e9 sur mes joues. Encore une fois, d\u2019autres avaient plus confiance en moi que moi-m\u00eame. Comment pouvaient-ils? Que voyaient-ils que j\u2019\u00e9tais incapable de voir? Ces membres savaient de quoi j\u2019\u00e9tais capable \u2013 il <em>me<\/em> restait juste \u00e0 le voir moi aussi.<\/p>\n<p>Quand je me suis finalement d\u00e9cid\u00e9e \u00e0 faire confiance au processus, tout est tomb\u00e9 en place. Encore une fois, je grandissais l\u00e0 o\u00f9 j\u2019\u00e9tais plant\u00e9e, et l\u2019amour inconditionnel et le soutien de mes Marraines et de la fraternit\u00e9 m\u2019ont soutenue. Les saisons se suivent, tout comme mes nombreuses exp\u00e9riences. Comme je suis plant\u00e9e ici, mes racines restent ancr\u00e9es \u2013 pour servir une fraternit\u00e9 aimante, tandis que je continue ma croissance \u00ab\u00a0un jour \u00e0 la fois\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Uthica A., D\u00e9l\u00e9gu\u00e9e de la RISGA, Afrique du Sud <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>f\u00e9vrier 2024<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00ab\u00a0Au c\u0153ur des Groupes Familiaux Al-Anon\u00a0\u00bb pr\u00e9sente des nouvelles, des politiques et des commentaires venant des b\u00e9n\u00e9voles, des membres du personnel et des lecteurs qui partagent leur exp\u00e9rience dans le service. Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur votre site Web ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[300,347],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41180","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annonces","category-le-lien"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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