{"id":40829,"date":"2024-01-02T11:18:23","date_gmt":"2024-01-02T16:18:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=40829"},"modified":"2024-01-02T11:19:57","modified_gmt":"2024-01-02T16:19:57","slug":"une-meilleure-relation-avec-mon-fils","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/une-meilleure-relation-avec-mon-fils\/","title":{"rendered":"Une meilleure relation avec mon fils"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>L\u2019un des r\u00e9sultats inattendus de mon travail dans le programme Al\u2011Anon a \u00e9t\u00e9 l\u2019am\u00e9lioration de ma relation avec mon fils, qui est mon proche alcoolique. Comprendre que je suis impuissante face \u00e0 ses d\u00e9cisions et \u00e0 son mode de vie m\u2019a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u00e2cher prise sur lui. Je m\u2019inqui\u00e8te \u00e9galement de sa s\u0153ur, qui est affect\u00e9e par le mal familial. Quand je passe une mauvaise journ\u00e9e ou une nuit obs\u00e9d\u00e9e par eux, je les imagine dans les bras de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure qui me dit\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je m\u2019en occupe.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Apprendre \u00e0 \u00e9couter mon fils sans donner de conseils a \u00e9t\u00e9 essentiel, tout comme ne pas lui poser trop de questions ou essayer de le manipuler. Dans nos conversations, nous nous en tenons \u00e0 des sujets neutres, g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement nos chiens et sa musique. Il m\u2019a fait plaisir en m\u2019offrant des concerts impromptus ou des vid\u00e9os, et je ch\u00e9ris ces exp\u00e9riences.<\/p>\n<p>R\u00e9cemment, j\u2019ai fait des amendes honorables maladroites au sujet de la violence qu\u2019il avait subie quand il \u00e9tait enfant et adolescent. Plus tard, il a soulev\u00e9 le sujet \u00e0 nouveau et il \u00e9tait bon d\u2019entendre son point de vue; \u00e7a m\u2019a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 me lib\u00e9rer de ma honte et de ma culpabilit\u00e9 de ne pas avoir fait davantage pour l\u2019aider. Je suis m\u2019am\u00e9liore pour l\u2019accepter tel qu\u2019il est, aimer la personne tout en d\u00e9testant sa maladie.<\/p>\n<p>Jusqu\u2019\u00e0 r\u00e9cemment, ma maison \u00e9tait jonch\u00e9e d\u2019anciennes photos\u00a0: des photos de mon fils avant qu\u2019il ne devienne un adolescent rebelle, avant tout son temps pass\u00e9 en d\u00e9tention, puis en prison, avant sa tentative de suicide. J\u2019ai rang\u00e9 ces photos, et aujourd\u2019hui j\u2019affiche des photos de lui tel qu\u2019il est en ce moment. Cela m\u2019a beaucoup aid\u00e9 \u00e0 accepter cette situation et ne plus me poser les questions\u00a0: <em>pourquoi lui? Pourquoi nous?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Je ne sais pas ce que l\u2019avenir nous r\u00e9serve \u00e0 lui ou \u00e0 moi. Je sais toutefois que l\u2019avenir est sous le contr\u00f4le de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure et que mon fils a sa propre Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Mary S., Arizona<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, d\u00e9cembre 2023<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222],"tags":[564],"class_list":["post-40829","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","tag-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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