{"id":40826,"date":"2024-01-02T11:06:08","date_gmt":"2024-01-02T16:06:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=40826"},"modified":"2024-01-02T11:10:08","modified_gmt":"2024-01-02T16:10:08","slug":"accepter-le-don-du-desespoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/accepter-le-don-du-desespoir\/","title":{"rendered":"Accepter le don du d\u00e9sespoir"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Mon mari et moi avons particip\u00e9 \u00e0 des s\u00e9ances de consultation familiale et de consultation spirituelle et on nous a dit qu\u2019il fallait que j\u2019aille \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon et que mon mari avait besoin des AA. \u00c9videmment, je me disais que c\u2019\u00e9tait son probl\u00e8me et que s\u2019il arr\u00eatait de boire, nous ne serions pas dans cette situation. Mon mari assistait irr\u00e9guli\u00e8rement \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions AA et m\u2019a demand\u00e9 d\u2019essayer Al\u2011Anon. J\u2019ai r\u00e9pondu\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Non, arr\u00eate de boire!\u00a0\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n

Il a emprunt\u00e9 de la documentation d\u2019une voisine pour que je la lise. Je la lui ai imm\u00e9diatement retourn\u00e9e. Cependant, je suis tomb\u00e9e sur la brochure L\u2019alcoolisme<\/em>, carrousel de la n\u00e9gation<\/em> (FP-3)<\/a> qui tra\u00eenait sur le bureau, et j\u2019ai finalement d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de la lire. La section sur les r\u00f4les des membres de la famille affect\u00e9s par la maladie m\u2019a fait sortir du d\u00e9ni et a sem\u00e9 une graine pour la possibilit\u00e9 d\u2019assister \u00e0 une r\u00e9union Al\u2011Anon.<\/p>\n

Peu de temps apr\u00e8s, mon mari a \u00e9t\u00e9 accus\u00e9 de conduite avec facult\u00e9s affaiblies, et il a choisi la consultation familiale par l\u2019interm\u00e9diaire d\u2019un centre de r\u00e9tablissement local plut\u00f4t que la prison. Je n\u2019avais pas d\u2019autre choix que d\u2019aller en consultation avec lui. Le devoir qui nous a \u00e9t\u00e9 assign\u00e9 par le conseiller a \u00e9t\u00e9 (encore une fois) qu\u2019il assiste au programme des AA et que j\u2019aille \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon \u2013 et il y avait des r\u00e9unions ce soir-l\u00e0. En fin de compte, j\u2019\u00e9tais assez mis\u00e9rable pour accepter le don du d\u00e9sespoir.<\/p>\n

Quand j\u2019ai franchi la porte de cette r\u00e9union, je savais que ces gens poss\u00e9daient quelque chose que je voulais et dont j\u2019avais besoin. J\u2019ai entendu que je n\u2019avais pas caus\u00e9 la consommation d\u2019alcool de mon mari, que je ne pouvais pas la contr\u00f4ler et que je n\u2019en connaissais pas la cure. J\u2019ai aussi entendu que je dois continuer de \u00ab\u00a0revenir\u00a0\u00bb. On m\u2019a dit que c\u2019\u00e9tait correct d\u2019aimer un alcoolique et de ne pas aimer ses actions. C\u2019\u00e9tait une chose que j\u2019avais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment besoin d\u2019entendre.<\/p>\n

La lecture du 4\u00a0mai dans Al\u2011Anon un jour \u00e0 la fois <\/em>(FB-6<\/a>) dit\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0En un sens, tout ce qui m\u2019arrive est un don de Dieu\u2026 ceux-ci peuvent \u00eatre consid\u00e9r\u00e9s comme des dons qui m\u2019apportent des \u00e9claircissements.\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0Je ne pouvais pas le voir tant que je n\u2019avais pas accept\u00e9 le don du d\u00e9sespoir la soir\u00e9e d\u2019avant. Apr\u00e8s cela, j\u2019ai compris qu\u2019il y avait beaucoup d\u2019autres dons qui m\u2019attendaient.<\/p>\n

Par Joyce Y., Texas<\/em><\/p>\n

The Forum, d\u00e9cembre 2023<\/em><\/p>\n

Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>

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