{"id":39524,"date":"2023-06-20T16:31:37","date_gmt":"2023-06-20T20:31:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=39524"},"modified":"2023-06-20T16:31:37","modified_gmt":"2023-06-20T20:31:37","slug":"batir-mon-chateau-sur-un-terrain-eleve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/batir-mon-chateau-sur-un-terrain-eleve\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00e2tir mon ch\u00e2teau sur un terrain \u00e9lev\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Le buveur principal dans ma vie est bourr\u00e9 de merveilleuses qualit\u00e9s. Cependant, un soir d\u2019ivresse, il a choisi une dispute inutile et destructrice. J\u2019ai utilis\u00e9 l\u2019outil du d\u00e9tachement que j\u2019ai appris \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon et je me suis doucement lev\u00e9e pour aller dans une autre pi\u00e8ce. Alors que je m\u2019\u00e9loignais, il m\u2019a rappel\u00e9 tous les gestes aimables et attentionn\u00e9s qu\u2019il avait pos\u00e9s pour moi la semaine d\u2019avant.<\/p>\n<p>C\u2019\u00e9tait vrai. Il avait bel et bien fait beaucoup de choses agr\u00e9ables pour moi et notre famille cette semaine-l\u00e0. Il pouvait aussi devenir irrationnel et belliqueux sous l\u2019influence de l\u2019alcool. Ce soir-l\u00e0, je voyais toutes ces belles choses \u00eatre emport\u00e9es par son ivresse. C\u2019\u00e9tait comme si j\u2019avais construit un magnifique ch\u00e2teau de sable sur la plage, chaque tour et chaque douve b\u00e2ties \u00e0 partir de ses bonnes actions, de ses gestes attentionn\u00e9s et de ses comportements responsables pour finir par \u00eatre emport\u00e9es par l\u2019in\u00e9vitable mar\u00e9e de l\u2019ivresse. Comme il \u00e9tait facile pour moi de d\u00e9ployer tous mes efforts pour construire et croire en mes ch\u00e2teaux de sable, seulement pour \u00eatre an\u00e9antie quand ils sont d\u00e9truits, comme on pouvait s\u2019y attendre, par la mar\u00e9e alcoolique.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s six ans \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019apprends \u00e0 construire mon ch\u00e2teau sur un terrain \u00e9lev\u00e9. La fondation et la structure que je construis en allant aux r\u00e9unions, en suivant les \u00c9tapes, en parlant avec ma Marraine, en parrainant d\u2019autres personnes et en servant m\u2019apportent stabilit\u00e9 et r\u00e9silience. De cette fa\u00e7on, je peux voir la construction des ch\u00e2teaux de sable et les vagues d\u00e9ferler \u00e0 une certaine distance, sachant que quoi qu\u2019il arrive avec les mar\u00e9es de l\u2019alcoolisme, je me trouve dans une structure qui ne peut jamais \u00eatre d\u00e9truite lorsqu\u2019elle est construite avec l\u2019aide de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure et le soutien d\u2019une fraternit\u00e9 aimante.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Kelly M., Utah<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>juin 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant : Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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