{"id":39186,"date":"2023-04-20T15:16:31","date_gmt":"2023-04-20T19:16:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=39186"},"modified":"2023-04-20T15:16:31","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T19:16:31","slug":"retrouver-lespoir-apres-une-rechute","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/retrouver-lespoir-apres-une-rechute\/","title":{"rendered":"Retrouver l\u2019espoir apr\u00e8s une rechute"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Je n\u2019ai jamais pens\u00e9 que cela pourrait m\u2019arriver\u2026 Je vivais dans un foyer en r\u00e9tablissement depuis plus de 20 ans. Puis un jour, mon mari m\u2019a annonc\u00e9 : \u00ab J\u2019aimerais te faire savoir que j\u2019ai bu quand j\u2019\u00e9tais \u00e0 la chasse. \u00bb Mon c\u0153ur a sombr\u00e9. J\u2019avais peine \u00e0 le croire. J\u2019avais assez d\u2019exp\u00e9rience avec Al\u2011Anon, mais je n\u2019avais jamais imagin\u00e9 que j\u2019en aurais besoin pour quelque chose comme \u00e7a. Dieu merci, j\u2019avais d\u00e9j\u00e0 une Marraine, j\u2019assistais \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions, j\u2019avais travaill\u00e9 sur les \u00c9tapes et j\u2019avais b\u00e2ti un syst\u00e8me de soutien.<\/p>\n<p>La rechute de mon mari m\u2019a envoy\u00e9e dans ce qui me semblait \u00eatre un autre monde. Je n\u2019avais jamais connu ce genre d\u2019impuissance auparavant. J\u2019ai mis en pratique les outils que j\u2019avais appris, mais la route n\u2019\u00e9tait pas facile. Pendant longtemps, je n\u2019arrivais pas \u00e0 saisir le concept de la Premi\u00e8re \u00c9tape. J\u2019ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de rester avec lui et d\u2019essayer d\u2019appliquer pleinement le programme Al\u2011Anon, mais apr\u00e8s deux ans et demi, ma croissance au sein du programme m\u2019a donn\u00e9 le courage d\u2019arr\u00eater enfin le man\u00e8ge.\u00a0Nous nous sommes s\u00e9par\u00e9s, et j\u2019ai v\u00e9cu un nouvel enfer. Une fois de plus, j\u2019ai utilis\u00e9 les outils que j\u2019avais pratiqu\u00e9s, et je me suis cramponn\u00e9e comme si ma vie en d\u00e9pendait.<\/p>\n<p>Perdre l\u2019homme que j\u2019aimais \u00e9tait d\u00e9vastateur. Certains jours, je ne voulais pas continuer, toutefois les principes Al\u2011Anon m\u2019assuraient qu\u2019il y avait de l\u2019espoir :\u00a0tiens bon, la douleur ne dure qu\u2019un instant. Je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas seule. D\u2019autres \u00e9taient pass\u00e9s par l\u00e0 et avaient ressenti ce que je ressentais. Il y avait une Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure qui ferait pour moi ce que je n\u2019arrivais pas \u00e0 faire pour moi-m\u00eame. Il fallait que je sois dispos\u00e9e \u00e0 effectuer le travail, et si je travaillais sur le programme et que je prenais soin de moi, j\u2019\u00e9tais s\u00fbre que je gu\u00e9rirais, que je grandirais et que je trouverais peut-\u00eatre m\u00eame le bonheur.<\/p>\n<p>Deux ans se sont \u00e9coul\u00e9s depuis mon divorce. J\u2019ai beaucoup chang\u00e9 et beaucoup grandi. Je vis encore des jours p\u00e9nibles et douloureux, mais je travaille toujours sur le programme et aujourd\u2019hui, j\u2019\u00e9prouve davantage d\u2019espoir pour moi et mon avenir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Jessica M., Oregon<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>March 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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