{"id":38115,"date":"2022-12-29T14:40:57","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=38115"},"modified":"2022-12-29T14:40:57","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:40:57","slug":"jai-tout-essaye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/jai-tout-essaye\/","title":{"rendered":"J&rsquo;ai tout essay\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Lorsque je r\u00e9fl\u00e9chis \u00e0 mes premiers jours vers le r\u00e9tablissement, je r\u00e9alise \u00e0 quel point je suis reconnaissante envers Al-Anon. J&rsquo;ai fait ce que beaucoup d&rsquo;autres membres ont fait avec leur alcoolique \u2013 vider des bouteilles d&rsquo;alcool, crier, hurler, pleurer et le supplier d&rsquo;arr\u00eater de boire. J&rsquo;ai pass\u00e9 de nombreuses nuits blanches \u00e0 me demander qui allait d\u00e9couvrir mes probl\u00e8mes ou \u00e0 craindre qu&rsquo;il ne tue quelqu&rsquo;un en conduisant en \u00e9tat d&rsquo;\u00e9bri\u00e9t\u00e9. Je craignais d&rsquo;aller faire des courses ou de voyager avec des amis, de crainte que quelque chose ne se produise pendant mon absence. J&rsquo;essayais quotidiennement de le raisonner, mais en vain. Les mensonges qu&rsquo;il racontait \u00e9taient blessants, et pourtant, il arrivait \u00e0 me convaincre qu&rsquo;il pouvait ou allait arr\u00eater de boire\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Juste une derni\u00e8re chance, s&rsquo;il te pla\u00eet\u00a0\u00bb, suppliait-il.<\/p>\n<p>Un jour, apr\u00e8s plusieurs mois dans Al-Anon, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais assise sur mon porche et j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je pouvais entendre les oiseaux chanter et les enfants rire. Pour la premi\u00e8re fois de ma vie, j&rsquo;ai ressenti de la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 et de la paix. J&rsquo;ai finalement r\u00e9alis\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;y avait rien que je puisse faire pour qu&rsquo;il arr\u00eate de boire. Je suis b\u00e9nie d&rsquo;avoir Al-Anon dans ma vie, et je vais \u00ab\u00a0pers\u00e9v\u00e9rer\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Mary S.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>novembre 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - 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