{"id":36834,"date":"2022-06-27T14:26:20","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T18:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=36834"},"modified":"2022-06-27T14:27:51","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T18:27:51","slug":"enlever-mes-lunettes-aux-verres-teintes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/enlever-mes-lunettes-aux-verres-teintes\/","title":{"rendered":"Enlever mes lunettes aux verres teint\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Lorsque j&rsquo;ai rompu avec mon premier petit ami apr\u00e8s cinq ans ensemble, ma m\u00e8re est arriv\u00e9e pour me ramener \u00e0 la maison. Pendant les douze heures de route, nous avons pass\u00e9 de longs moments sans nous parler alors que je pleurais en silence. Une fois, lorsqu&rsquo;elle a rompu le silence pour me demander si j&rsquo;avais pens\u00e9 \u00e0 mettre une serviette dans mon sac de voyage, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je me sentais plus seule et invisible dans la voiture avec elle qu&rsquo;\u00e0 n&rsquo;importe quel moment de ma rupture.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e8s que nous sommes arriv\u00e9es dans ma ville natale, j&rsquo;ai recherch\u00e9 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon. Je savais que ma m\u00e8re avait \u00e9t\u00e9 alcoolique, mais les AA l&rsquo;avaient \u00ab\u00a0gu\u00e9rie\u00a0\u00bb et elle avait cess\u00e9 d&rsquo;aller aux r\u00e9unions avant m\u00eame ma naissance. \u00c0 cause de cela, je craignais ne pas \u00eatre \u00e9ligible pour participer \u00e0 Al-Anon. Cependant, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 accueillie par tous les membres d\u00e8s mon arriv\u00e9e. Apr\u00e8s avoir pass\u00e9 ma vie avec une m\u00e8re qui essayait de me montrer son soutien en \u00ab\u00a0faisant\u00a0\u00bb tout pour moi, ce fut un soulagement incroyable de trouver une fraternit\u00e9 qui ne faisait rien pour moi, mais qui se contentait d\u2019\u00e9couter calmement, reconnaissant et acceptant mes sentiments.<\/p>\n<p>Lors de cette m\u00eame r\u00e9union, deux semaines plus tard, un membre a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 parler du fait qu&rsquo;il cachait l&rsquo;alcool de son partenaire. Cela m&rsquo;a rappel\u00e9 comment, pendant ma relation, je ne pouvais garder qu&rsquo;une seule petite bouteille de vin de cuisine dans le r\u00e9frig\u00e9rateur \u2013 une quantit\u00e9 trop petite pour que mon partenaire puisse s&rsquo;enivrer. Lorsque j&rsquo;achetais les petites bouteilles de vin de cuisine, je les cachais toutes, sauf une, dans mon tiroir \u00e0 sous-v\u00eatements pour que mon partenaire ne les trouve pas et ne les boive pas. Tout \u00e0 coup, \u00e0 mille kilom\u00e8tres de l\u00e0 et un mois apr\u00e8s la rupture, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que j&rsquo;avais pass\u00e9 les cinq derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es de ma vie avec un alcoolique!<\/p>\n<p>Cette r\u00e9v\u00e9lation a imm\u00e9diatement donn\u00e9 du cr\u00e9dit aux t\u00e9moignages et aux lectures sur les sch\u00e9mas familiaux alcooliques et m&rsquo;a incit\u00e9e \u00e0 trouver imm\u00e9diatement une Marraine, \u00e0 travailler sur les \u00c9tapes et \u00e0 comprendre comment ma famille abstinente, mais toujours dysfonctionnelle, avait fa\u00e7onn\u00e9 mes id\u00e9es sur les relations et ma perception de mes propres besoins \u00e9motionnels.<\/p>\n<p>Plusieurs ann\u00e9es plus tard, j&rsquo;ai encore du mal \u00e0 communiquer et \u00e0 \u00e9tablir des liens \u00e9motionnels avec ma m\u00e8re, mais je travaille sur mon programme aux c\u00f4t\u00e9s de mon fianc\u00e9, qui a dix ans de sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e0 son actif et un engagement envers le r\u00e9tablissement qui soutient et inspire le mien. Al-Anon a supprim\u00e9 les lunettes teint\u00e9es du d\u00e9ni et m&rsquo;a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 me voir, \u00e0 voir ma vie et mes proches pour ce que nous sommes et non pour ce que je pense que nous devrions \u00eatre.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Audrey G., Oregon<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>juin 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36834","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - 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