{"id":35764,"date":"2022-03-02T09:24:32","date_gmt":"2022-03-02T14:24:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=35764"},"modified":"2022-03-02T09:24:38","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T14:24:38","slug":"aimer-ma-soeur-alcoolique-et-maimer-moi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/aimer-ma-soeur-alcoolique-et-maimer-moi\/","title":{"rendered":"Aimer ma s\u0153ur alcoolique \u2013 et m\u2019aimer moi"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>Ma s\u0153ur Kris a 18 mois de plus que moi et a vraiment \u00e9t\u00e9 ma meilleure amie pendant toute mon enfance. Nous avons grandi \u00e0 la campagne et construit des forts, jou\u00e9 \u00e0 cache-cache, fait de la luge jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que nos joues soient roses, install\u00e9 notre quartier Barbie sur la table de ping-pong, attrap\u00e9 des t\u00eatards et des lucioles, et jou\u00e9 pendant des heures et des heures sur la <em>grande<\/em> balan\u00e7oire. Oh, comme on aimait la <em>grande<\/em> balan\u00e7oire. Quand nous avions une parade de quartier, Kris insistait pour que je sois la reine qui devait monter sur une chaise dans le chariot rouge. Je me sentais si sp\u00e9ciale. Pour le bal de fin d\u2019ann\u00e9e, Kris m\u2019a soigneusement maquill\u00e9e et coiff\u00e9e. Quels bons souvenirs. Apr\u00e8s son dipl\u00f4me de fin d\u2019\u00e9tudes secondaires, Kris a d\u00e9m\u00e9nag\u00e9. J\u2019ai eu le c\u0153ur bris\u00e9 lorsqu\u2019elle est sortie de l\u2019all\u00e9e dans sa voiture charg\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>Au cours de la derni\u00e8re d\u00e9cennie, la consommation d\u2019alcool de Kris a augment\u00e9. En 2015, elle a eu sa premi\u00e8re infraction pour conduite en \u00e9tat d\u2019ivresse. Son mari a appel\u00e9 pour dire qu\u2019elle \u00e9tait en prison. Choqu\u00e9e et en pleurs, j\u2019ai rencontr\u00e9 le mari de Kris et ma jeune s\u0153ur chez elle pour essayer de d\u00e9terminer les prochaines \u00e9tapes. Kris est all\u00e9e \u00e0 sa premi\u00e8re cure de d\u00e9sintoxication et m\u2019a racont\u00e9 avec fiert\u00e9 qu\u2019elle avait accept\u00e9 ses jetons aux r\u00e9unions des Alcooliques Anonymes. Malheureusement, sa sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 a \u00e9t\u00e9 de courte dur\u00e9e. Depuis, elle a fait cinq cures de d\u00e9sintoxication, a d\u00e9moli plusieurs voitures, a \u00e9vit\u00e9 la prison et entretient des relations difficiles avec ses enfants. Pendant ce temps, je priais pour Kris. J\u2019ai beaucoup pleur\u00e9 et je ne savais pas quoi faire. Je suis all\u00e9e \u00e0 quelques r\u00e9unions Al-Anon au d\u00e9but, mais je suppose que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas pr\u00eate.<\/p>\n<p>Finalement, en avril 2020, j\u2019ai contact\u00e9 mon \u00e9glise pour demander des conseils et des pri\u00e8res pour ma s\u0153ur. La femme \u00e0 qui j\u2019ai parl\u00e9 m\u2019a sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 d\u2019essayer Al-Anon et m\u2019a envoy\u00e9 une liste de r\u00e9unions par courriel. Cette fois-ci, Al-Anon a chang\u00e9 ma vie. Lorsque j\u2019ai entendu \u00ab Je n\u2019ai pas caus\u00e9 la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme, je ne peux pas la contr\u00f4ler et je n\u2019en connais pas la cure\u00a0\u00bb, j\u2019ai eu l\u2019impression que la Cloche de la Libert\u00e9 m\u2019avait ass\u00e9n\u00e9 un coup sur la t\u00eate! Le bien-\u00eatre que je ressens maintenant, les connaissances que j\u2019ai acquises et l\u2019amour que j\u2019ai ressenti sont inconcevables. Al-Anon est devenu mon lieu de r\u00e9confort.<\/p>\n<p>Je participe \u00e0 la plupart des r\u00e9unions et j\u2019\u00e9coute attentivement les histoires et les le\u00e7ons que les autres partagent de leur exp\u00e9rience. J\u2019ai une Marraine et j\u2019ai r\u00e9cemment termin\u00e9 la Cinqui\u00e8me \u00c9tape. Hier, j\u2019ai saut\u00e9 une activit\u00e9 de r\u00e9seautage pour ma nouvelle entreprise afin d\u2019assister \u00e0 ma r\u00e9union hebdomadaire, car j\u2019avais besoin de me ressourcer et de travailler sur mon programme. Qui aurait cru que travailler sur les \u00c9tapes serait si gratifiant?<\/p>\n<p>Aujourd\u2019hui, je suis en paix et je prends soin de moi. Je travaille sur le programme en prenant le temps de faire des lectures quotidiennes, de parler avec d\u2019autres membres, d\u2019\u00e9couter des balados sur le r\u00e9tablissement et d\u2019assister \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions. J\u2019ai m\u00eame pr\u00e9sid\u00e9 une r\u00e9union pour la premi\u00e8re fois le jour de mon premier anniversaire Al-Anon. Le programme fonctionne lorsque j\u2019y travaille.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019aime ma s\u0153ur sans r\u00e9serve. Aujourd\u2019hui, je prie pour qu\u2019elle passe une journ\u00e9e sobre. Bien que notre relation ait chang\u00e9, ma s\u0153ur sera toujours ma meilleure amie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Tracy<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>janvier 2022<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,223],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35764","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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