{"id":35077,"date":"2021-12-28T14:11:07","date_gmt":"2021-12-28T19:11:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=35077"},"modified":"2021-12-28T14:11:14","modified_gmt":"2021-12-28T19:11:14","slug":"lalcoolisme-des-autres-ma-aussi-affectee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/lalcoolisme-des-autres-ma-aussi-affectee\/","title":{"rendered":"L&rsquo;alcoolisme des autres m&rsquo;a aussi affect\u00e9e"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>En tant que nouvelle venue dans Al-Anon, il m&rsquo;a fallu plusieurs mois avant de pouvoir partager les parties les plus douloureuses de mon pass\u00e9 \u2013 les choses qui m&rsquo;\u00e9taient arriv\u00e9es et les erreurs que j&rsquo;avais commises.<\/p>\n<p>Ayant grandi dans un foyer affect\u00e9 par l\u2019alcoolisme, j&rsquo;ai appris \u00e0 \u00e9touffer mes sentiments, \u00e0 m&rsquo;isoler et \u00e0 me fermer \u00e9motionnellement. C&rsquo;est ainsi que j&rsquo;ai appris \u00e0 survivre. Je ne voulais pas ressentir ces sentiments. La culpabilit\u00e9, la honte et le doute de soi jouaient un r\u00f4le \u00e9gal dans la destruction de mon bonheur, le d\u00e9clenchement de mon malaise et le sabotage de ma capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 m&rsquo;aimer.<\/p>\n<p>Travailler sur les \u00c9tapes et les mettre en pratique m&rsquo;a permis de voir certaines dures r\u00e9alit\u00e9s que je devais accepter pour pouvoir avancer. J&rsquo;ai appris que j&rsquo;avais une maladie tout aussi rus\u00e9e, d\u00e9routante et puissante que les buveurs probl\u00e8mes qui faisaient partie de ma vie. Je suis rest\u00e9e cach\u00e9e; j&rsquo;ai fait semblant; je me suis menti \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame, encore et encore.<\/p>\n<p>Dans les r\u00e9unions, les membres m\u2019ont sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 de persister. J&rsquo;ai entendu des phrases comme \u00ab\u00a0Ne pars pas avant d&rsquo;avoir obtenu ton miracle\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0\u00c7a marche si tu y travailles\u00a0\u00bb. J&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 ces suggestions inspirantes, et j&rsquo;ai donc persist\u00e9. En choisissant d&rsquo;\u00eatre honn\u00eate, ouverte d&rsquo;esprit et de faire preuve de bonne volont\u00e9, j&rsquo;ai d\u00e9couvert que les principes spirituels d&rsquo;Al-Anon m&rsquo;aident continuellement \u00e0 m&rsquo;accepter, \u00e0 pardonner et \u00e0 m&rsquo;aimer, moi et les autres et \u00e0 \u00eatre la meilleure version de moi-m\u00eame que je pouvais \u00eatre.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 la pratique de ce beau mode de vie, je sais maintenant qu&rsquo;il y a de la force \u00e0 \u00eatre vuln\u00e9rable et que les larmes sont courageuses, belles et curatives. Partager mon histoire m&rsquo;a mis sur la voie de la paix int\u00e9rieure et du contentement, ainsi que de la croissance spirituelle continue. Aujourd&rsquo;hui, je choisis de vivre en bonne sant\u00e9 et d\u2019\u00eatre heureuse et libre sur le plan \u00e9motif.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Rosemary B., Arizona<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">The Forum<em>, novembre 2021<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35077","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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