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Lorsque j’ai appris que mon fils de 15 ans buvait, je l’ai inscrit \u00e0 un programme de traitement. Le personnel de l’\u00e9tablissement m’a recommand\u00e9 de participer \u00e0 Al-Anon. Ma premi\u00e8re pens\u00e9e a \u00e9t\u00e9\u00a0: Que puis-je faire de plus pour aider mon fils?<\/em> Je l’emmenais d\u00e9j\u00e0 en cure trois jours par semaine; je l’emmenais aux r\u00e9unions; je le conduisais \u00e0 l’\u00e9cole et je surveillais son emploi du temps. Tout cela en plus d’essayer d’\u00e9lever deux autres enfants plus jeunes et de maintenir notre foyer. Je n’avais aucune id\u00e9e de la fa\u00e7on dont je pouvais int\u00e9grer une chose de plus dans un emploi du temps qui n’avait m\u00eame pas de place pour ce que j’essayais d\u00e9j\u00e0 d’accomplir. Cependant, je me suis rendu compte que ce que je faisais ne rendait pas mon fils sobre, car sa maladie progressait malgr\u00e9 tous mes efforts.<\/p>\n

En d\u00e9sespoir de cause, j’ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon. En \u00e9coutant les membres parler de leurs propres exp\u00e9riences, j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre que mes efforts n\u2019entra\u00eeneraient pas un changement instantan\u00e9 de sa maladie. J’ai continu\u00e9 \u00e0 retourner aux r\u00e9unions et j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 modifier certaines de mes actions. Le fait de surveiller constamment mon fils n’avait pas arr\u00eat\u00e9 sa consommation d’alcool, alors j’ai pris du temps pour moi et pour les autres membres de la famille. Les cris, les pleurs, les n\u00e9gociations et les punitions n’ont pas emp\u00each\u00e9 mon fils de boire, alors j’ai aussi cess\u00e9 de le faire.<\/p>\n

Il y a eu de nombreux jours et nuits douloureux o\u00f9 ma peur pour mon fils a affect\u00e9 ma vie quotidienne, mais j’ai trouv\u00e9 une Marraine, j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 suivre les \u00c9tapes, j’ai lu la Documentation Approuv\u00e9e par la Conf\u00e9rence, j’ai assist\u00e9 r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement aux r\u00e9unions et j’ai d\u00e9velopp\u00e9 une relation avec ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure. J’ai fini par comprendre que faire d’Al-Anon une partie int\u00e8gre de ma vie n’\u00e9tait pas faire plus<\/em>, mais faire les choses diff\u00e9remment<\/em>. Les choses que j’ai apprises dans Al-Anon m’ont aid\u00e9e \u00e0 identifier mes motivations et \u00e0 comprendre que sauver mon fils des cons\u00e9quences de sa maladie ne nous aidait pas, ni lui ni moi. J’ai \u00e9galement appris \u00e0 travailler sur une relation d’amour avec mon fils.<\/p>\n

Aujourd’hui, apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es de consommation d\u2019alcool, mon fils est sobre. C’est un adulte maintenant, et nous avons une relation d’amour et de respect. Je suis devenue une meilleure m\u00e8re et une meilleure personne en participant \u00e0 Al-Anon et en mettant en pratique les principes du programme dans tous les domaines de ma vie.<\/p>\n

Par Tracy G.<\/em><\/p>\n

The Forum, novembre 2021<\/em><\/p>\n

Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>

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