{"id":34657,"date":"2021-10-22T16:54:39","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T20:54:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=34657"},"modified":"2021-10-22T16:54:45","modified_gmt":"2021-10-22T20:54:45","slug":"les-principes-au-dessus-des-regles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/les-principes-au-dessus-des-regles\/","title":{"rendered":"Les principes au-dessus des \u00ab r\u00e8gles \u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>Maintenant que j\u2019ai augment\u00e9 ma conscience de soi et ma confiance en une Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, je r\u00e9alise que je suis plus \u00e0 l\u2019aise pour prendre des d\u00e9cisions en l\u2019absence de r\u00e8gles strictes et de structure rigide. Quand j\u2019\u00e9tais une nouvelle venue dans Al\u2011Anon, je n\u2019avais pas cette aisance et cette confiance \u2013 bien au contraire. Apr\u00e8s avoir grandi dans un foyer affect\u00e9 par l\u2019alcoolisme o\u00f9 il y avait peu de r\u00e8gles et aucune figure d\u2019autorit\u00e9 fiable, les r\u00e8gles m\u2019apportaient du r\u00e9confort. Il \u00e9tait donc naturel que je prenne des d\u00e9cisions en fonction d\u2019elles. Aujourd\u2019hui, je suis plus encline \u00e0 utiliser des id\u00e9es, des exp\u00e9riences et des principes \u2013 comme ceux contenus dans les trente-six\u00a0composantes de nos trois h\u00e9ritages \u2013 pour prendre des d\u00e9cisions.<\/p>\n<p>Dans les moments de peur ou d\u2019incertitude, je peux me rabattre sur ma m\u00e9thode des \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e8gles\u00a0\u00bb. Apr\u00e8s tout, si je prends une d\u00e9cision fond\u00e9e sur les r\u00e8gles \u00e9tablies et qu\u2019il s\u2019av\u00e8re plus tard que c\u2019\u00e9tait une erreur, je peux simplement bl\u00e2mer celles-ci et ne pas assumer de responsabilit\u00e9 personnelle, n\u2019est-ce pas? Malheureusement, non. Dans Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai d\u00e9couvert que je suis responsable de mes d\u00e9cisions, quelles que soient les m\u00e9thodes utilis\u00e9es pour les prendre. J\u2019ai \u00e9galement appris que je suis moins susceptible de les regretter si j\u2019ai pris le temps de m\u2019informer, de demander \u00e0 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure de me guider et d\u2019en parler avec ma Marraine ou un ami Al\u2011Anon digne de confiance.<\/p>\n<p>Ce m\u00eame processus, l\u00e9g\u00e8rement modifi\u00e9, fonctionne dans nos groupes. Derni\u00e8rement, j\u2019ai re\u00e7u un certain nombre de questions de membres qui semblaient essayer de s\u2019appuyer sur des r\u00e8gles pour d\u00e9terminer ce qu\u2019ils pouvaient ou ne pouvaient pas faire dans leurs groupes. Bien qu\u2019il soit tentant pour moi de donner \u00e0 quelqu\u2019un \u00ab\u00a0la r\u00e9ponse\u00a0\u00bb parce que cela me donne le sentiment d\u2019\u00eatre intelligente et appr\u00e9ci\u00e9e, je dois plut\u00f4t encourager les membres du groupe \u00e0 s\u2019informer, \u00e0 demander l\u2019aide de leur Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure et \u00e0 avoir une discussion sur les principes. Les discussions fond\u00e9es sur des principes aident non seulement les groupes \u00e0 trouver des solutions \u00e0 leurs probl\u00e8mes, mais elles montrent aussi comment nous pouvons appliquer ces m\u00eames id\u00e9es \u00e0 nos probl\u00e8mes en dehors du groupe. Je suis reconnaissante que le programme Al\u2011Anon continue \u00e0 m\u2019offrir de nouvelles perspectives, de nouveaux sujets de pri\u00e8re et de m\u00e9ditation, et de nouvelles fa\u00e7ons d\u2019int\u00e9grer nos H\u00e9ritages.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Kerri K., directrice adjointe \u2013 International<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, novembre 2021<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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