{"id":34655,"date":"2021-10-22T16:29:45","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T20:29:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=34655"},"modified":"2021-10-22T16:29:51","modified_gmt":"2021-10-22T20:29:51","slug":"ma-reaction-face-a-la-rechute-de-mon-fils","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/ma-reaction-face-a-la-rechute-de-mon-fils\/","title":{"rendered":"Ma r\u00e9action face \u00e0 la rechute de mon fils"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>Mon fils a fait une rechute, et moi aussi. Comme je l\u2019avais fait avant Al\u2011Anon, je me suis apitoy\u00e9e sur mon sort et j\u2019ai souhait\u00e9 que mon fils soit diff\u00e9rent. J\u2019ai pens\u00e9 de fa\u00e7on obsessionnelle \u00e0 ce que je pourrais lui dire pour am\u00e9liorer ou faciliter les choses. Je voulais me tenir \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cart des r\u00e9unions. Je voulais trouver, sans l\u2019aide de personne, comment remettre mon fils sur pieds.<\/p>\n<p>Ces vieux comportements n\u2019ont pas dur\u00e9 longtemps, et j\u2019en suis reconnaissante. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai demand\u00e9 de l\u2019aide \u00e0 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, qui m\u2019a r\u00e9pondu par le biais de mes lectures quotidiennes. Ma Marraine ch\u00e9rie a reconnu mon besoin d\u2019envoyer mes sentiments par courriel et de les faire suivre d\u2019un appel t\u00e9l\u00e9phonique plut\u00f4t que de tout lui d\u00e9voiler au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone. J\u2019allais aussi aux r\u00e9unions, o\u00f9 le partage et l\u2019amour de ma famille Al\u2011Anon \u00e9taient la lumi\u00e8re qui m\u2019aidait \u00e0 sortir de l\u2019obscurit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 cette exp\u00e9rience, j\u2019ai compris l\u2019importante diff\u00e9rence entre le contr\u00f4le et le choix. Essayer de contr\u00f4ler les r\u00e9sultats \u2013 par exemple, la sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 de mon fils \u2013 ne m\u2019a apport\u00e9 que ressentiment et d\u00e9ception. Lorsque j\u2019ai compris le pouvoir r\u00e9el de ma capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 choisir \u2013 en particulier, ma capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 choisir ma r\u00e9action \u00e0 cette situation \u2013 j\u2019ai pu rel\u00e2cher mon emprise sur mon besoin de tout contr\u00f4ler et commencer \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir.<\/p>\n<p>Je n\u2019ai pas pu \u00ab\u00a0remettre\u00a0\u00bb mon fils sur pieds, mais moi, oui. Il vivra probablement d\u2019autres rechutes, que je ne peux pas contr\u00f4ler; mais, je peux choisir comment y r\u00e9agir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Julie J., Texas<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, octobre 2021<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34655","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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