{"id":34647,"date":"2021-10-22T15:42:03","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T19:42:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=34647"},"modified":"2021-10-22T15:42:09","modified_gmt":"2021-10-22T19:42:09","slug":"affectee-par-lalcoolisme-je-me-retablis-dans-al-anon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/affectee-par-lalcoolisme-je-me-retablis-dans-al-anon\/","title":{"rendered":"Affect\u00e9e par l\u2019alcoolisme, je me r\u00e9tablis dans Al-Anon"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>En tant qu\u2019enfant grandissant avec un p\u00e8re alcoolique, je me blottissais souvent dans le coin de mon lit, je me bouchais les oreilles et je me rendais \u00ab\u00a0invisible\u00a0\u00bb \u2013faisant abstraction de la violence qui r\u00e9gnait dans notre foyer. \u00c0 l\u2019adolescence, je n\u2019avais plus besoin de me cacher et de me boucher les oreilles; j\u2019\u00e9tais pass\u00e9e ma\u00eetre dans l\u2019art de faire la sourde oreille et d\u2019\u00eatre l\u2019enfant invisible.<\/p>\n<p>Ma m\u00e8re, mes fr\u00e8res, ma s\u0153ur et moi ne parlions jamais de ce qui se passait chez nous. En fait, nous ne parlions de rien du tout. Nous regardions la t\u00e9l\u00e9vision et nous nous \u00e9chappions chez des amis o\u00f9 nous n\u2019en parlions toujours pas. J\u2019ai fini par m\u2019impliquer dans des groupes de jeunes et je fr\u00e9quentais des gens \u00ab\u00a0\u00e9quilibr\u00e9s\u00a0\u00bb. Je voulais \u00eatre comme eux, alors j\u2019ai adopt\u00e9 leur Dieu et leur mode de vie. La petite fille effray\u00e9e a \u00e9t\u00e9 mise au rancart.<\/p>\n<p>Je me suis mari\u00e9e, j\u2019ai eu deux enfants, j\u2019ai divorc\u00e9, puis je me suis remari\u00e9e. Mon mari \u00e9tait mon meilleur ami, mon \u00e2me s\u0153ur. Je me sentais valoris\u00e9e et en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 avec lui. Puis la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme s\u2019est empar\u00e9e de lui. Il a chang\u00e9, et la petite fille effray\u00e9e en moi a ressurgi et trembl\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Mon m\u00e9decin et mon th\u00e9rapeute m\u2019ont tous deux recommand\u00e9 Al\u2011Anon. Il m\u2019a fallu beaucoup de courage pour aller \u00e0 cette premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, mais j\u2019ai fini par apprendre \u00e0 partager mon histoire avec ces gens qui me comprenaient. J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 conna\u00eetre Dieu tel que je Le con\u00e7ois et Il m\u2019a donn\u00e9 la force de d\u00e9fendre la petite fille effray\u00e9e que j\u2019\u00e9tais encore \u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u2011Anon m\u2019a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 me d\u00e9couvrir, me conna\u00eetre, et \u00e0 voir l\u2019alcoolique, non pas comme un monstre, mais comme un \u00eatre humain atteint d\u2019une maladie. Nous sommes divorc\u00e9s maintenant, mais nous sommes rest\u00e9s amis. Il est maintenant en voie de r\u00e9tablissement, et je prie pour que sa Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure le guide. Entretemps, je poursuis mon r\u00e9tablissement au sein d\u2019Al\u2011Anon \u2013 le voyage de toute une vie. Je ne suis plus invisible, j\u2019\u00e9coute et j\u2019apprends, je suis une membre Al\u2011Anon remplie de gratitude.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Brooke W. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, septembre 2021)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34647","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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