{"id":31130,"date":"2020-12-28T15:38:31","date_gmt":"2020-12-28T20:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=31130"},"modified":"2021-02-01T14:45:44","modified_gmt":"2021-02-01T19:45:44","slug":"une-enfant-adulte-dalcoolique-al-anon-trouve-son-chemin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/une-enfant-adulte-dalcoolique-al-anon-trouve-son-chemin\/","title":{"rendered":"Une enfant adulte d\u2019alcoolique Al-Anon trouve son chemin"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Je ne savais pas, lorsque j\u2019ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, ce qui n\u2019allait pas chez moi. Je me sentais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9e, non pas \u00e0 cause de mon incapacit\u00e9 \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre le probl\u00e8me d\u2019une personne alcoolique, mais parce que je n\u2019arrivais pas \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre mes propres probl\u00e8mes. J\u2019\u00e9tais dans une boucle perp\u00e9tuelle de mauvais sch\u00e9mas relationnels. La monogamie en s\u00e9rie \u00e9tait mon modus operandi \u2013 en avoir un sous la main et un autre si c\u2019\u00e9tait n\u00e9cessaire \u2013 m\u2019assurait de ne jamais risquer d\u2019\u00eatre seule.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai adh\u00e9r\u00e9 \u00e0 Al-Anon un peu sur la recommandation de ma conseill\u00e8re. J\u2019imagine qu\u2019apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es \u00e0 m\u2019\u00e9couter parler de mon comportement nuisible sans le changer, elle devenait un peu frustr\u00e9e. Avec une franchise croissante, elle m\u2019a incit\u00e9e \u00e0 trouver un \u00ab\u00a0syst\u00e8me de soutien\u00a0\u00bb autre que les deux hommes avec lesquels j\u2019\u00e9tais impliqu\u00e9e. Elle n\u2019a pas mentionn\u00e9 l\u2019alcoolisme ou Al-Anon. En fait, je ne suis m\u00eame pas certaine qu\u2019elle ait compris comment mes comportements correspondaient \u00e0 ceux d\u2019autres personnes qui avaient grandi au contact de la maladie familiale de l\u2019alcoolisme.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai fini par suivre ses directives. J\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union sur un tout nouveau site Web, cr\u00e9\u00e9 gr\u00e2ce aux efforts du Service d\u2019Information Al-Anon local. Celui-ci affichait les vingt questions du document <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/pdf\/FS15.pdf\"><em>Avez\u2011vous grandi aupr\u00e8s d\u2019un buveur probl\u00e8me?<\/em> (FS-25)<\/a>. Lors de la r\u00e9union, j\u2019ai entendu des membres partager des sentiments qui m\u2019ont aid\u00e9e \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas seule. Les suggestions de ma conseill\u00e8re, l\u2019engagement de ces membres \u00e0 informer le public, et cette r\u00e9union m\u2019ont sauv\u00e9 la vie. Enfin, j\u2019ai ressenti l\u2019espoir de pouvoir changer mes habitudes destructrices.<\/p>\n<p>Al-Anon dispose aujourd\u2019hui de nombreux outils \u00e0 partager avec les professionnels sur l\u2019impact d\u2019une enfance dans le contexte de la maladie familiale. La revue <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/pour-les-membres\/ressources-pour-les-membres\/documentation\/magazines\/al-anon-face-a-lalcoolisme-magazines\/\"><em>Al-Anon face \u00e0 l\u2019alcoolisme<\/em><\/a> et les t\u00e9moignages des membres sur <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/nouveaux-venus\/comment-puis-je-aider\/\">al-anon.org <\/a>offrent nos histoires, et les donn\u00e9es du <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/ressources-pour-les-professionnels\/sondage-effectue-aupres-des-membres\/\">sondage effectu\u00e9 aupr\u00e8s des membres<\/a> fournissent les preuves de l\u2019efficacit\u00e9 d\u2019Al-Anon. Nous avons tous l\u2019occasion de faire une diff\u00e9rence lorsque nous partageons ces outils avec un professionnel que nous connaissons. Merci pour vos efforts, ils ont certainement fait toute la diff\u00e9rence pour moi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Vali F., directrice g\u00e9n\u00e9rale<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>f\u00e9vrier 2021<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur votre site Web ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[300,347],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annonces","category-le-lien"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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