{"id":30178,"date":"2020-10-21T11:43:18","date_gmt":"2020-10-21T15:43:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=30178"},"modified":"2020-10-21T11:43:18","modified_gmt":"2020-10-21T15:43:18","slug":"je-recois-quand-je-donne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-recois-quand-je-donne\/","title":{"rendered":"Je re\u00e7ois quand je donne"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Lorsque j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais \u00e9motionnellement et physiquement \u00e9puis\u00e9e par le drame qui r\u00e9gnait dans mon mariage. J&rsquo;avais juste assez d&rsquo;\u00e9nergie pour me rendre aux r\u00e9unions et en revenir. J&rsquo;avais demand\u00e9 \u00e0 un membre de mon groupe d&rsquo;appartenance d&rsquo;\u00eatre ma Marraine parce qu&rsquo;elle avait de nombreuses ann\u00e9es d&rsquo;exp\u00e9rience dans le programme et que je voulais ce qu&rsquo;elle avait. Ce que je ne savais pas \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9poque, c&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;elle avait occup\u00e9 de nombreux postes de service. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 surprise et j&rsquo;ai \u00e9prouv\u00e9 du ressentiment lorsqu&rsquo;elle m&rsquo;a imm\u00e9diatement incit\u00e9e \u00e0 occuper un poste de service. Ne voyait-elle pas que mon assiette \u00e9tait d\u00e9j\u00e0 pleine \u00e0 la maison? J&rsquo;avais peur de la d\u00e9cevoir, alors je me suis port\u00e9e candidate \u00e0 contrec\u0153ur au poste de secr\u00e9taire du groupe.<\/p>\n<p>Je n&rsquo;occupais ce poste que depuis quelques mois lorsque le poste de Repr\u00e9sentant de Groupe s&rsquo;est soudainement lib\u00e9r\u00e9 et que ma Marraine m&rsquo;a encourag\u00e9e \u00e0 me porter candidate. Une fois de plus, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9sist\u00e9 parce que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais encore une nouvelle venue. Il \u00e9tait certain que quelqu&rsquo;un de mieux inform\u00e9 sur le programme serait un meilleur choix! De plus, cela impliquait de se rendre \u00e0 trois r\u00e9unions de l\u2019Assembl\u00e9e par an et d&rsquo;assister chaque mois aux r\u00e9unions du District. Pour moi, cela ressemblait \u00e0 du travail! J&rsquo;ai dit que j&rsquo;allais y r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir. Je n&rsquo;oublierai jamais ce qu&rsquo;elle a dit ensuite\u00a0:\u00a0si je participe \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions d&rsquo;affaires, fais du covoiturage pour me rendre \u00e0 un \u00e9v\u00e9nement avec d&rsquo;autres membres Al-Anon ou fais du travail de service, je me concentre sur les principes du programme Al-Anon et je ne suis pas obs\u00e9d\u00e9e par l&rsquo;alcoolique.<\/p>\n<p>Elle avait parfaitement raison. En faisant du travail de service, je permettais \u00e0 des pens\u00e9es saines de remplacer lentement les pens\u00e9es malsaines. Au d\u00e9but, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais tr\u00e8s nerveuse et g\u00ean\u00e9e parce que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais s\u00fbre qu&rsquo;il y avait une certaine fa\u00e7on de faire les choses. Je ne voulais pas attirer l&rsquo;attention n\u00e9gative sur moi en faisant une erreur. Au contraire, j&rsquo;ai remarqu\u00e9 que si j&rsquo;oubliais quelque chose, quelqu&rsquo;un pouvait gentiment me le rappeler, mais personne ne m&rsquo;a jamais dit comment jouer mon r\u00f4le. Les membres m&rsquo;aimaient tel que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais et ne cessaient de me remercier pour mon travail de service.<\/p>\n<p>Avec le temps, j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me porter volontaire avec joie, car je savais que je me sentirais beaucoup mieux. En tant que nouvelle venue au sein du personnel du Bureau des Services Mondiaux, j&rsquo;ai maintenant une perspective plus large de la fa\u00e7on dont les effets cumulatifs de chacun qui fait du travail de service Al-Anon cr\u00e9ent l&rsquo;unit\u00e9 au sein de notre fraternit\u00e9. Lorsque nous faisons tous notre part \u2013 en pr\u00e9sidant des r\u00e9unions, en accueillant un nouveau venu ou en participant \u00e0 un groupe de travail \u2013 nous aidons d&rsquo;autres personnes \u00e0 travers le monde \u00e0 se r\u00e9tablir et \u00e0 progresser.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Natalie M., directrice adjointe \u2013 Administration et strat\u00e9gie<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, novembre 2020<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur votre site Web ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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