{"id":29797,"date":"2020-08-28T10:56:38","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T14:56:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=29797"},"modified":"2020-09-03T09:03:44","modified_gmt":"2020-09-03T13:03:44","slug":"vous-etes-devenus-ma-famille","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/vous-etes-devenus-ma-famille\/","title":{"rendered":"Vous \u00eates devenus ma famille"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Quand j\u2019\u00e9tais enfant, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 adopt\u00e9e dans une famille de trois gar\u00e7ons. J\u2019\u00e9tais une petite fille tr\u00e8s calme et je faisais tout ce que mes parents me disaient de faire. Mon p\u00e8re \u00e9tait un alcoolique notoire; quoique, si je me souviens bien, je ne l\u2019ai vu ivre que trois fois. Ma m\u00e8re \u00e9tait une buveuse de placard. Les deux gar\u00e7ons les plus \u00e2g\u00e9s sont devenus alcooliques par la suite. L\u2019environnement familial \u00e9tait tendu et je faisais tout pour plaire \u00e0 mes parents dans l\u2019espoir d\u2019attirer leur attention et leurs louanges. Je recevais de l\u2019attention de ma m\u00e8re, mais c\u2019\u00e9tait g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement de fa\u00e7on n\u00e9gative ou pour me r\u00e9primander.<\/p>\n<p>Je n\u2019ai jamais eu le sentiment d\u2019appartenir \u00e0 cette famille. J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 \u00e9chapper \u00e0 ma souffrance en faisant du sport. Avec le temps, et mon mariage, j\u2019ai pens\u00e9 que c\u2019\u00e9tait la solution et que nous serions une famille heureuse. Cependant, \u00e0 cause de certains de mes d\u00e9fauts de caract\u00e8re et de ma peur de la confrontation, mon mariage s\u2019est effrit\u00e9, et je me suis retrouv\u00e9e seule avec notre fils. Apr\u00e8s la perte de mon mari, je me suis lanc\u00e9e pour \u00e9lever notre fils avec tout l\u2019amour et les soins que je pouvais lui donner. En 2006, je suis all\u00e9e \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon et j\u2019ai eu du mal \u00e0 concevoir que quelqu\u2019un pouvait m\u2019accepter; mais avant la fin de la r\u00e9union, j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que j\u2019\u00e9tais au bon endroit. Ces membres sont devenus ma famille, et je n\u2019ai jamais regard\u00e9 en arri\u00e8re. La fraternit\u00e9 qu\u2019offre Al-Anon est formidable. Je suis ici pour de bon!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Sharon H., Nouvelle-\u00c9cosse<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, juillet 2020<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur votre site Web ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Copy Here<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,223,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29797","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - 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