{"id":27742,"date":"2020-03-10T12:02:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T16:02:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=27742"},"modified":"2020-03-10T12:02:13","modified_gmt":"2020-03-10T16:02:13","slug":"je-ne-savais-pas-que-ma-femme-avait-un-probleme-dalcool","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-ne-savais-pas-que-ma-femme-avait-un-probleme-dalcool\/","title":{"rendered":"Je ne savais pas que ma femme avait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcool"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Avant mon arriv\u00e9e \u00e0 Al-Anon, la famille de ma femme m\u2019avait affront\u00e9 au sujet certains de mes comportements qu\u2019ils n\u2019appr\u00e9ciaient pas. Quand ils organisaient des barbecues, ils n\u2019aimaient pas le fait que je refuse de boire avec leurs amis. Ils m\u2019ont accus\u00e9 d\u2019\u00eatre antisocial et grossier. Je me demandais ce qui n\u2019allait pas chez moi. J\u2019avais l\u2019impression que ma femme et sa famille \u00e9taient des buveurs normaux et que la personne qui avait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcool, c\u2019\u00e9tait moi.<\/p>\n<p>Quand un conseiller m\u2019a envoy\u00e9 \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, j\u2019y ai assist\u00e9 sans vraiment savoir pourquoi. L\u2019animateur de la r\u00e9union m\u2019a dit que j\u2019\u00e9tais le bienvenu et que je devais continuer \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que je d\u00e9couvre avec certitude si Al-Anon pouvait m\u2019aider. Apr\u00e8s avoir assist\u00e9 \u00e0 quelques r\u00e9unions, ma femme m\u2019a demand\u00e9 ce qui se passait. Elle m\u2019a confi\u00e9 que je semblais aller mieux, que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas aussi d\u00e9prim\u00e9 et solitaire. Elle m\u2019a demand\u00e9 o\u00f9 j\u2019allais le soir et je lui ai expliqu\u00e9 qu\u2019un conseiller m\u2019avait envoy\u00e9 aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon et que je voulais que nos enfants commencent \u00e0 aller \u00e0 Alateen. Je ne me rappelle pas ce qu\u2019elle a dit, mais apr\u00e8s quelques semaines, elle a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 aller aux Alcooliques Anonymes (AA).<\/p>\n<p>Je ne savais pas que ma femme avait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcool jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce qu\u2019elle me le dise. Quand je lui ai confi\u00e9 que je ne l\u2019avais vue ivre que trois ou quatre fois en 18 ans de mariage, elle m\u2019a dit que je ne l\u2019avais jamais vraiment vue sobre. Elle m\u2019a avou\u00e9 qu\u2019elle gardait un niveau constant d\u2019alcool dans son sang en tout temps. Elle disait que pour elle, chaque jour, c\u2019\u00e9tait comme si elle sortait du cabinet du dentiste\u00a0: elle pouvait conduire, parler et manger, mais elle ne sentait rien.<\/p>\n<p>Finalement, ma femme m\u2019a expliqu\u00e9 la v\u00e9ritable raison pour laquelle elle \u00e9tait all\u00e9e chez les AA\u00a0: elle craignait de perdre ses enfants. Par cons\u00e9quent, elle est devenue membre \u00e0 vie des Alcooliques Anonymes et a gard\u00e9 une relation tr\u00e8s proche avec nos enfants. Notre vie s\u2019est am\u00e9lior\u00e9e parce qu\u2019un conseiller m\u2019a recommand\u00e9 d\u2019aller \u00e0 Al-Anon. Je continue d\u2019en profiter parce qu\u2019un grand nombre de membres m\u2019ont invit\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0pers\u00e9v\u00e9rer dans Al-Anon\u00a0\u00bb. J\u2019en serai toujours reconnaissant.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Pat Q., Montana<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Al-Anon face \u00e0 l&rsquo;alcoolisme 2020<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[272,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-al-anon-face-a-lalcoolisme","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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