{"id":27371,"date":"2020-01-31T16:24:05","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T21:24:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=27371"},"modified":"2020-09-29T14:57:09","modified_gmt":"2020-09-29T18:57:09","slug":"les-cadeaux-que-jai-recus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/les-cadeaux-que-jai-recus\/","title":{"rendered":"Les cadeaux que j\u2019ai re\u00e7us"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Quand j\u2019ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, je n\u2019y suis pas all\u00e9 dans le but de gu\u00e9rir ma m\u00e8re. Je savais que <em>j\u2019<\/em>\u00e9tais \u00e0 ramasser \u00e0 la petite cuill\u00e8re. Je savais aussi qu\u2019il y avait quelque chose qui n\u2019allait pas dans ma famille, mais je n\u2019arrivais pas \u00e0 expliquer ce que c\u2019\u00e9tait. Je me sentais tout le temps nerveux et inquiet. En fait, je ne me souviens pas d\u2019une \u00e9poque o\u00f9 j\u2019ai ressenti un sentiment de paix. De plus, bien que j\u2019aie \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9lev\u00e9 par des parents fondamentalistes, la religion n\u2019\u00e9tait pas vraiment une source de r\u00e9confort pour moi. Mais \u00e0 la fin de cette premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, quand les membres m\u2019ont accueilli avec des accolades et des mots de compr\u00e9hension, j\u2019ai imm\u00e9diatement su qu\u2019il y avait quelque chose de sinc\u00e8re, et je savais que c\u2019\u00e9tait une chose que je voulais.<\/p>\n<p>Au fur et \u00e0 mesure que j\u2019assistais aux r\u00e9unions, et que je pouvais mieux \u00e9couter les autres membres partager leurs exp\u00e9riences, quelque chose d\u2019\u00e9tonnant a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 se produire pour moi. J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 mieux comprendre en entendant mon histoire dans la leur, et je pouvais reconna\u00eetre la douleur que j\u2019avais ressentie pendant si longtemps. C\u2019\u00e9tait comme si j\u2019avais \u00e9t\u00e9 incapable d\u2019admettre \u00e0 quel point j\u2019avais \u00e9t\u00e9 affect\u00e9 par la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que j\u2019entende les autres membres en parler.<\/p>\n<p>Au cours des deux ann\u00e9es suivantes, j\u2019ai pass\u00e9 du temps avec mon premier Parrain qui m\u2019a dit de \u00ab\u00a0monter dans la voiture\u00a0\u00bb. Nous sommes all\u00e9s \u00e0 des s\u00e9minaires Al-Anon de fin de semaine, \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions avec conf\u00e9renciers et \u00e0 des congr\u00e8s, partout o\u00f9 nous le pouvions pour fortifier notre r\u00e9tablissement. J\u2019ai rencontr\u00e9 des membres de tout le pays \u00e0 ces rassemblements. Et, en apprenant \u00e0 mieux les conna\u00eetre, j\u2019ai pu sortir de ma timidit\u00e9 et commencer \u00e0 me d\u00e9couvrir pour la premi\u00e8re fois. Quand j\u2019\u00e9tais enfant, j\u2019\u00e9tais le gamin qui sautait sur son v\u00e9lo et allait chez le nouveau voisin pour lui dire bonjour. Lorsque j\u2019ai rejoint Al-Anon, la maladie avait fait de moi un gar\u00e7on timide qui se contentait de se tenir \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cart et de se tenir \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cart des autres. Parce que mon Parrain m\u2019a encourag\u00e9 \u00e0 essayer de nouvelles choses et \u00e0 apprendre \u00e0 rencontrer de nouvelles personnes, mon estime de soi s\u2019est d\u00e9velopp\u00e9e et j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 m\u2019aimer comme j\u2019\u00e9tais.<\/p>\n<p>Une fois que j\u2019ai assum\u00e9 certaines fonctions de service au niveau du groupe, j\u2019ai donc commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me sentir plus confiant. J\u2019ai d\u00e9tourn\u00e9 mon attention de mes proches alcooliques et je me suis plut\u00f4t concentr\u00e9 sur moi. Apr\u00e8s avoir d\u00e9croch\u00e9 de l\u2019universit\u00e9 \u00e0 plusieurs reprises, j\u2019ai finalement compris que je pouvais r\u00e9ussir si je prenais les choses un jour \u00e0 la fois. J\u2019ai appris que non seulement je pouvais r\u00e9ussir, mais que je pouvais aussi profiter de l\u2019exp\u00e9rience. M\u00eame dans les semestres difficiles, j\u2019ai d\u00e9couvert que je pouvais faire tout ce que l\u2019on me demandait.<\/p>\n<p>Mais surtout, Al-Anon m\u2019a donn\u00e9 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure. En tant qu\u2019enfant de pr\u00e9dicateur, j\u2019ai toujours cru en Dieu, mais la maladie peut compl\u00e8tement changer notre vision de la spiritualit\u00e9. Je n\u2019avais pas l\u2019impression que Dieu m\u2019aimait, et il \u00e9tait donc difficile d\u2019\u00e9tablir une relation \u00e9troite avec Lui. Quand j\u2019ai entendu, dans les r\u00e9unions, les membres parler de tout ce que Dieu leur avait apport\u00e9, j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 esp\u00e9rer que moi aussi, je pourrais conna\u00eetre un r\u00e9veil spirituel; et cela n\u2019a pas tard\u00e9! Cela ne s\u2019est pas pass\u00e9 en un clin d\u2019\u0153il, mais \u00e0 travers de nombreuses r\u00e9unions, des discussions d\u00e9chirantes avec les membres et la lecture de la Documentation Approuv\u00e9e par la Conf\u00e9rence. Ceci est vrai encore aujourd\u2019hui.<\/p>\n<p>Je sais d\u00e9sormais que tous les cadeaux que j\u2019ai re\u00e7us \u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur et \u00e0 l\u2019ext\u00e9rieur de la fraternit\u00e9 proviennent de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure. Je consid\u00e8re qu\u2019il est de mon devoir de les transmettre \u00e0 d\u2019autres personnes qui souffrent encore des cons\u00e9quences de cette maladie, car, comme je l\u2019ai entendu lors des r\u00e9unions, \u00ab\u00a0pour le garder, je dois le redonner\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Mark S., R\u00e9dacteur de magazine<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>d\u00e9cembre 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[300,347],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annonces","category-le-lien"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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