{"id":27347,"date":"2020-01-31T14:23:44","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T19:23:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=27347"},"modified":"2020-01-31T14:23:46","modified_gmt":"2020-01-31T19:23:46","slug":"traverser-de-lautre-cote-de-la-rive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/traverser-de-lautre-cote-de-la-rive\/","title":{"rendered":"Traverser de l\u2019autre c\u00f4t\u00e9 de la rive\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Avant d\u2019assister \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, je me suis souvent demand\u00e9 pourquoi les choses se passent comme elles se passent. Pourquoi ai-je toujours l\u2019air de me sortir d\u2019un p\u00e9trin ou d\u2019un autre? Je ne me souviens pas d\u2019une \u00e9poque avant Al-Anon qui n\u2019incluait pas le chaos. \u00c0 l\u2019adolescence, la vie n\u2019\u00e9tait pas facile avec les intimidateurs \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole. Pour d\u2019autres, leurs maisons \u00e9taient leurs refuges loin de ces abus. Mais pour moi, vivre avec une personne alcoolique, la maison n\u2019\u00e9tait pas du tout un refuge. Je rentrais \u00e0 la maison et je me faisais malmener par mon p\u00e8re. Les m\u00eames choses cruelles que j\u2019ai entendues \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole, je les entendais \u00e0 la maison. Si j\u2019avais de la chance, je m\u2019enfuyais dans ma chambre avant qu\u2019il ne s\u2019en prenne \u00e0 moi. La tendance \u00e0 fuir, ainsi que ma pi\u00e8tre estime de soi, m\u2019ont men\u00e9 dans un engrenage de mauvaises d\u00e9cisions et d\u2019essais pour m\u2019en sortir.<\/p>\n<p>Je me souviens que ma m\u00e8re me disait \u00ab\u00a0d\u2019appr\u00e9cier ma bonne fortune\u00a0\u00bb et je ne comprenais souvent pas de quelle bonne fortune elle parlait. Il m\u2019a fallu des d\u00e9cennies pour le d\u00e9couvrir. On dit qu\u2019avec le recul, on peut \u00e9valuer les choix pass\u00e9s plus clairement qu\u2019au moment du choix et je dois dire qu\u2019ils ont tout \u00e0 fait raison. En regardant en arri\u00e8re, le d\u00e9sordre et le chaos dans ma vie, je peux r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir sur certaines des choses positives qui m\u2019ont men\u00e9 l\u00e0 o\u00f9 je suis aujourd\u2019hui. Un jour, j\u2019ai appris que ma femme, qui \u00e9tait all\u00e9e rendre visite \u00e0 sa m\u00e8re, avait d\u00e9cid\u00e9 qu\u2019elle et les enfants ne reviendraient pas. Boulevers\u00e9, j\u2019ai r\u00e9agi en me r\u00e9fugiant dans un recoin obscur, ce qui a entra\u00een\u00e9 une r\u00e9trogradation au travail. Cette r\u00e9trogradation m\u2019a incit\u00e9 \u00e0 emballer tout ce que je poss\u00e9dais et \u00e0 parcourir 3 000 kilom\u00e8tres \u00e0 travers le pays pour, au moins, essayer d\u2019\u00eatre un p\u00e8re pour mes enfants. J\u2019ai pu trouver du travail et r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement rendre visite \u00e0 mes enfants.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai ensuite rencontr\u00e9 une femme qui a voyag\u00e9 encore plus loin, \u00e0 13 000 kilom\u00e8tres d\u2019une \u00eele du Pacifique Sud, et qui a vol\u00e9 mon c\u0153ur. Notre relation s\u2019est \u00e9panouie et elle m\u2019a pr\u00e9sent\u00e9 \u00e0 son patron, qui est devenu plus tard mon employeur. C\u2019est l\u00e0 que j\u2019ai appris \u00e0 me passionner pour le marketing. Nous nous sommes mari\u00e9s, et mes enfants ont assist\u00e9 au mariage. Peu de temps plus tard, mon ex-femme s\u2019est retrouv\u00e9e dans une situation o\u00f9 elle ne pouvait plus s\u2019occuper de nos enfants et nous en avons donc obtenu la garde. Alors, je me suis retrouv\u00e9 avec un nouvel emploi, une nouvelle \u00e9pouse, un nouveau b\u00e9b\u00e9 et mes enfants qui ont emm\u00e9nag\u00e9 avec nous. Je pensais que tout serait parfait, mais je ne savais pas que le chaos allait bient\u00f4t consumer notre famille. Mes enfants manquaient de respect \u00e0 pas ma femme, et c\u2019est devenu une bataille constante jusqu\u2019au jour o\u00f9 mes deux enfants ont d\u00e9m\u00e9nag\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Sans Al-Anon, il aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 impossible de trouver la gratitude \u00e0 travers tout ce chaos; mais, depuis que j\u2019assiste aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon, je dois rendre \u00e0 C\u00e9sar ce qui appartient \u00e0 C\u00e9sar. Je suis tr\u00e8s reconnaissant que ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure ait \u00e9t\u00e9 avec moi pendant tout ce temps, m\u00eame si je ne m\u2019en rendais pas compte \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque. Ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure avait besoin que je traverse le pays et que ma femme voyage \u00e0 l\u2019autre bout du monde pour que nous puissions nous rencontrer et pour que je puisse commencer ma vie et une nouvelle carri\u00e8re. Elle a permis \u00e0 mes enfants de tester notre mariage, et cela nous a montr\u00e9 que nous \u00e9tions indestructibles. Ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure m\u2019a donn\u00e9 de nouveaux outils pour chaque d\u00e9fi, y compris celui qui m\u2019a conduit au Bureau des Services Mondiaux. J\u2019en suis \u00e9ternellement reconnaissant.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Scot P., Directeur adjoint \u2013 Strat\u00e9gie num\u00e9rique<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>novembre 2019<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[300,347],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27347","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annonces","category-le-lien"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.9 - 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