{"id":27343,"date":"2020-01-31T13:47:07","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T18:47:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=27343"},"modified":"2020-04-07T14:05:32","modified_gmt":"2020-04-07T18:05:32","slug":"ou-que-je-sois","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/ou-que-je-sois\/","title":{"rendered":"O\u00f9 que je sois&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>D\u00e8s mon plus jeune \u00e2ge, j\u2019ai suppos\u00e9 que si j\u2019arrivais \u00e0 faire en sorte que ma m\u00e8re cesse d\u2019\u00eatre en col\u00e8re contre mon p\u00e8re, alors tout irait bien dans mon univers. C\u2019est alors que ma chasse au tr\u00e9sor chaotique a commenc\u00e9. J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 d\u00e9crypter l\u2019heure \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e2ge de cinq ans, mais pas par le biais de la scolarisation traditionnelle. Au lieu de cela, c\u2019\u00e9tait \u00e0 travers les repas froids laiss\u00e9s intacts pendant que ma s\u0153ur et moi \u00e9tions assis \u00e0 la table du souper et que nous regardions notre m\u00e8re bouillir de col\u00e8re au moment o\u00f9 le bruit des cl\u00e9s ouvrait la porte de la cuisine et o\u00f9 notre p\u00e8re entrait en tr\u00e9buchant.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019\u00e9prouvais cette sensation d\u2019avoir un creux dans l\u2019estomac et je me dirigeais directement vers l\u2019\u00e9vier pour me d\u00e9barrasser des naus\u00e9es qui me tenaillaient, esp\u00e9rant \u2013 sans le savoir \u00e0 cette \u00e9poque-l\u00e0 \u2013 d\u00e9tourner sa col\u00e8re de mon p\u00e8re et les unir pour venir en aide \u00e0 leur enfant. Et cela a march\u00e9 pendant longtemps. En prenant de l\u2019\u00e2ge, la qu\u00eate de la paix \u00e0 la maison s\u2019est compliqu\u00e9e parce que je ne pouvais plus faire semblant d\u2019\u00eatre malade encore bien longtemps. Alors, je suis devenue bavarde, une n\u00e9gociatrice juv\u00e9nile. J\u2019\u00e9tais dou\u00e9e pour raconter des histoires dans le seul but de d\u00e9tourner l\u2019attention du fait \u00e9vident que mon p\u00e8re \u00e9tait ivre et que ma m\u00e8re \u00e9tait en col\u00e8re.<\/p>\n<p>Adolescente, je me suis retrouv\u00e9e plong\u00e9e dans le monde de la po\u00e9sie, du th\u00e9\u00e2tre et de l\u2019art, qui m\u2019a d\u00e9livr\u00e9e du secret qui m\u2019\u00e9touffait dans notre petit appartement urbain \u2013 du moins, c\u2019est ce que je pensais. Mais les bonnes notes, les accolades po\u00e9tiques, les prix de la meilleure actrice et mon art n\u2019ont fait qu\u2019engourdir la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 d\u2019une vie dans le contexte de l\u2019alcoolisme actif. Quand j\u2019ai finalement quitt\u00e9 la maison de mes parents et que je me suis mari\u00e9e, j\u2019ai pens\u00e9 que la vie allait s\u00fbrement se calmer et que ce sentiment d\u2019avoir un creux dans l\u2019estomac allait enfin dispara\u00eetre. Cependant, apr\u00e8s avoir mis fin \u00e0 ce mariage, j\u2019ai eu une r\u00e9v\u00e9lation surprenante quand j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon \u2013 o\u00f9 que je sois, j\u2019\u00e9tais pr\u00e9sente; j\u2019\u00e9tais le d\u00e9nominateur commun dans ma vie. La premi\u00e8re fois que j\u2019ai entendu les mots d\u2019ouverture du slogan \u00ab\u00a0\u00c7a commence par moi\u00a0\u00bb, j\u2019ai su que j\u2019avais enfin trouv\u00e9 ma voie pour sortir de ma chasse au tr\u00e9sor chaotique et que j\u2019\u00e9tais au d\u00e9but de mon voyage vers la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Sandi G., Floride<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>novembre 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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