{"id":26344,"date":"2019-10-01T14:50:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-01T18:50:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=26344"},"modified":"2019-10-01T14:51:24","modified_gmt":"2019-10-01T18:51:24","slug":"javais-desesperement-besoin-dun-gilet-de-sauvetage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/javais-desesperement-besoin-dun-gilet-de-sauvetage\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u2019avais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment besoin d\u2019un gilet de sauvetage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Il y a quelques ann\u00e9es, j\u2019ai finalement pris la d\u00e9cision d\u2019entrer dans le bureau d\u2019un conseiller en toxicomanie et alcoolisme. Lorsque je suis arriv\u00e9e \u00e0 ce bureau, j\u2019avais l\u2019impression de suffoquer, que j\u2019\u00e9tais en train de me noyer dans une chaloupe qui flottait dans des vagues de 40 pieds de haut. J\u2019avais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment besoin d\u2019un gilet de sauvetage. J\u2019\u00e9tais \u00e9puis\u00e9e et je voulais r\u00e9gler le probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcool d\u2019une autre personne. Je voulais aussi enlever les n\u0153uds de mon estomac et me d\u00e9barrasser de la peur qui submergeait ma vie. J\u2019avais vraiment tout essay\u00e9! J\u2019\u00e9tais \u00e0 peu pr\u00e8s certaine \u2013 m\u00eame \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque \u2013 que c\u2019\u00e9tait une maladie et pas un mauvais choix moral. Je n\u2019aimais pas la fa\u00e7on dont maladie \u2013 ce fardeau \u2013 m\u2019affectait. Elle d\u00e9chirait tout ce qui \u00e9tait bon et plein d\u2019espoir dans le sc\u00e9nario que j\u2019avais \u00e9crit pour ma vie.<\/p>\n<p>Quelques minutes apr\u00e8s le d\u00e9but de la rencontre, le conseiller m\u2019a demand\u00e9 la raison de ma visite. Je ne voulais pas donner l\u2019impression que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas du tout au courant de la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme. Alors, j\u2019ai r\u00e9pondu en disant\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je veux trouver comment mieux naviguer au milieu de l\u2019alcoolisme en phase active\u00a0\u00bb. Je n\u2019ai pas dit que je voulais gu\u00e9rir quelqu\u2019un d\u2019autre, m\u00eame si c\u2019\u00e9tait la v\u00e9rit\u00e9. Au lieu de cela, j\u2019ai dit que je voulais me soigner moi.<\/p>\n<p>Je me souviens du sourire et de la compassion de ce professionnel. Je me suis sentie en s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Je suis certaine maintenant, en regardant en arri\u00e8re, que le conseiller avait probablement entendu d\u2019autres personnes formuler, de la m\u00eame fa\u00e7on, les raisons pour lesquelles elles \u00e9taient venues le consulter. Et puis j\u2019ai entendu ce que j\u2019avais esp\u00e9r\u00e9 entendre\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je suis heureux de vous voir, heureux de vous aider et de vous permettre d\u2019apprendre de nouvelles mani\u00e8res de penser et d\u2019agir pour que vous puissiez commencer \u00e0 vous r\u00e9tablir. Je vous demanderai aussi d\u2019assister aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon\u00a0\u00bb. C\u2019est ce que j\u2019ai fait \u2013 j\u2019ai fait confiance et j\u2019ai rejoint Al-Anon \u2013 en tremblant et pleine de peur. J\u2019en serai \u00e9ternellement reconnaissante.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Linda S.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>juillet 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,224,220,225,222,223,221,226],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-amie-alcoolique","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","category-mon-petit-filsma-petite-fille-vit-avec-une-personne-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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