{"id":25439,"date":"2019-07-03T14:57:57","date_gmt":"2019-07-03T18:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=25439"},"modified":"2020-06-24T14:31:00","modified_gmt":"2020-06-24T18:31:00","slug":"jai-enfin-pu-retirer-mon-armure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/jai-enfin-pu-retirer-mon-armure\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u2019ai enfin pu retirer mon armure"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Ayant grandi dans un foyer affect\u00e9 par l\u2019alcoolisme, j\u2019ai d\u00fb me d\u00e9brouiller toute seule. En cons\u00e9quence, j\u2019ai d\u00e9velopp\u00e9 une croyance arrogante et suffisante que j\u2019avais toutes les r\u00e9ponses. Je sentais que c\u2019\u00e9tait moi qui devais faire en sorte que tout soit en ordre. Quand j\u2019ai quitt\u00e9 le cocon familial, j\u2019avais la conviction que j\u2019\u00e9tais pr\u00eate \u00e0 affronter le monde et je me suis jur\u00e9 de vivre diff\u00e9remment. J\u2019ai mis mon armure, et il allait falloir un miracle pour me montrer ma v\u00e9ritable identit\u00e9 \u00e0 qui que ce soit, y compris \u00e0 moi\u2011m\u00eame.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai entendu parler d\u2019Al\u2011Anon au cours d\u2019un stage que je faisais \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole et j\u2019ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 quelques r\u00e9unions Al\u2011Anon et AA dans le cadre de mon affectation. J\u2019ai tout de suite pens\u00e9 que ma m\u00e8re avait vraiment besoin de faire ce programme Al\u2011Anon parce qu\u2019il \u00e9tait \u00e9vident que la consommation d\u2019alcool de mon p\u00e8re la rendait m\u00e9contente. Elle y est all\u00e9e plusieurs fois, mais n\u2019a pas vu comment Al\u2011Anon pouvait l\u2019aider. Apr\u00e8s tout, elle ne buvait pas. Elle a achet\u00e9 un des recueils de lectures quotidiennes et a estim\u00e9 que c\u2019\u00e9tait suffisant pour elle.<\/p>\n<p>L\u2019alcoolique que j\u2019aimais est devenu abstinent et a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 aller chez les AA; et pourtant, j\u2019\u00e9tais plus malheureuse que jamais. Mes ins\u00e9curit\u00e9s profondes s\u2019envenimaient et, quand je suis retourn\u00e9e \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, je ne pensais pas que j\u2019\u00e9tais au bon endroit parce que je ne voulais pas y \u00eatre. Je refusais de voir ma part de responsabilit\u00e9. Heureusement, j\u2019ai entendu dire qu\u2019Al\u2011Anon parlait de ma maladie. Mon comportement et mes attitudes me rendaient malade et je ne m\u2019en rendais m\u00eame pas compte. Je faisais passer tout le monde en premier, pensant que je connaissais les r\u00e9ponses aux probl\u00e8mes des autres, et je justifiais mes actions au point que je ne pensais pas pouvoir changer.<\/p>\n<p>En \u00e9coutant les membres partager leurs exp\u00e9riences, j\u2019ai ressenti de l\u2019espoir en moi\u2011m\u00eame \u2013 j\u2019esp\u00e9rais que je pourrais prendre le risque d\u2019\u00f4ter mon armure, ou peut\u2011\u00eatre juste une pi\u00e8ce de celle\u2011ci, pour r\u00e9v\u00e9ler le vrai moi. Chose \u00e9tonnante j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 changer quand ce programme d\u2019amour s\u2019est d\u00e9roul\u00e9 devant moi. Al\u2011Anon m\u2019a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 m\u2019aimer et \u00e0 m\u2019accepter telle que je suis, en d\u00e9pit de la maladie familiale de l\u2019alcoolisme. Je continuerai \u00e0 participer aux r\u00e9unions pour me rappeler que j\u2019en suis digne.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par Sue P., Virginie<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, mars 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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