{"id":21711,"date":"2019-01-11T15:25:00","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T20:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=21711\/"},"modified":"2019-01-11T15:25:00","modified_gmt":"2019-01-11T20:25:00","slug":"je-suis-enfin-sortie-du-deni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-suis-enfin-sortie-du-deni\/","title":{"rendered":"Je suis enfin sortie du d\u00e9ni"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>En travaillant sur le programme Al\u2011Anon, le plus difficile pour moi c\u2019est de faire continuellement l\u2019effort d\u2019\u00eatre honn\u00eate. Mon mari \u00e9tait alcoolique et il est d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 depuis de nombreuses ann\u00e9es. Cependant, j\u2019ai encore du mal \u00e0 \u00eatre honn\u00eate face \u00e0 mes sentiments, sur la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de notre vie ensemble et sur la fa\u00e7on dont j\u2019ai contribu\u00e9 \u00e0 notre insanit\u00e9. Je suis tellement dou\u00e9e pour le d\u00e9ni. Je vois maintenant que nos enfants ont \u00e9t\u00e9 bless\u00e9s par mon manque d\u2019honn\u00eatet\u00e9 envers eux au sujet de l\u2019endroit o\u00f9 leur p\u00e8re \u00e9tait \u2013 habituellement parti boire \u2013, ou pourquoi il \u00e9tait malade \u2013 habituellement avec une gueule de bois. J\u2019ai dit \u00e0 mes parents que nous ne pouvions pas leur rendre visite \u00e0 cause de conflits scolaires alors qu\u2019en fait, c\u2019\u00e9tait \u00e0 cause de ses cuites qui l\u2019avaient rendu bien trop malade pour que nous puissions voyager. J\u2019ai dit \u00e0 son patron qu\u2019il ne pouvait pas aller travailler parce qu\u2019il r\u00e9parait son camion alors qu\u2019en r\u00e9alit\u00e9, il \u00e9tait en train de boire. J\u2019ai dit aux gens \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9glise qu\u2019il ne pouvait pas assister \u00e0 la messe le dimanche parce qu\u2019il avait du travail \u00e0 faire. Je me suis toujours dit que j\u2019\u00e9tais heureuse, que les enfants grandissaient tr\u00e8s bien et que bient\u00f4t\u2026 un jour\u2026 son probl\u00e8me serait r\u00e9gl\u00e9. Ce n\u2019est qu\u2019\u00e0 Al\u2011Anon que j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 le soutien don\u2019t j\u2019avais besoin pour regarder ma vie avec honn\u00eatet\u00e9, pour accepter mes \u00e9checs et comprendre la v\u00e9rit\u00e9. J\u2019ai vu le d\u00e9ni pour ce qu\u2019il \u00e9tait : une excuse pour ne pas vivre pleinement ma vie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par Rhoda S., Texas<br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, septembre 2018<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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