{"id":18532,"date":"2018-09-01T10:01:00","date_gmt":"2018-09-01T14:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=18532\/"},"modified":"2020-07-20T10:24:39","modified_gmt":"2020-07-20T14:24:39","slug":"je-meveille-a-ma-propre-vie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-meveille-a-ma-propre-vie\/","title":{"rendered":"Je m\u2019\u00e9veille \u00e0 ma propre vie"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>J\u2019ai toujours eu le sentiment d\u2019\u00eatre une personne aimante, mais je vivais souvent ma vie en y r\u00e9agissant, plut\u00f4t qu\u2019en y r\u00e9pondant.<\/p>\n<p>Je me demandais pourquoi je ne pouvais pas changer l\u2019alcoolique, alors j\u2019ai essay\u00e9 un peu plus fort. Je me suis assur\u00e9e que la maison soit propre et que les repas soient bons et servis \u00e0 l\u2019heure. J\u2019ai fait en sorte que mon apparence soit toujours parfaite quand nous sortions ensemble. L\u2019id\u00e9e de faire plaisir aux autres est devenue une obsession. Pendant plusieurs ann\u00e9es, je me suis sentie d\u00e9sir\u00e9e et appr\u00e9ci\u00e9e, mais j\u2019ai perdu quelqu\u2019un en cours de chemin : moi-m\u00eame.<\/p>\n<p>Le programme Al-Anon est devenu mon aventure pour me red\u00e9couvrir. Une amie m\u2019a un jour demand\u00e9 ce que j\u2019aimais faire. Chaque fois que je pensais \u00e0 une activit\u00e9, je r\u00e9alisais que c\u2019\u00e9tait quelque chose que mon conjoint aimait faire et que j\u2019avais, par la suite, appris \u00e0 aimer moi-m\u00eame. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me demander qui j\u2019\u00e9tais vraiment et ce qui me rendait heureuse. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me demander si je pouvais retrouver une partie de cette personne heureuse que j\u2019\u00e9tais jadis. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 faire des t\u00e2ches m\u00e9nag\u00e8res quotidiennes pour mon propre plaisir. Par exemple, je nettoyais la maison parce que j\u2019aimais quand elle \u00e9tait propre, non parce que je voulais qu\u2019une autre personne remarque mon travail. Je cuisinais un repas pour mon propre plaisir ; j\u2019allais au travail parce que j\u2019aimais ce que je faisais. Je me suis \u00e9veill\u00e9e \u00e0 ma propre vie et maintenant j\u2019accepte le fait que je suis merveilleuse, tout simplement parce que je suis ici.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Rosemarie B., Alberta<\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, juin 2018<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18532","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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