{"id":18527,"date":"2018-09-01T09:41:49","date_gmt":"2018-09-01T13:41:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=18527\/"},"modified":"2021-03-04T13:59:01","modified_gmt":"2021-03-04T18:59:01","slug":"lelephant-dans-le-salon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/lelephant-dans-le-salon\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019\u00e9l\u00e9phant dans le salon"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Il y a plusieurs ann\u00e9es de cela, une amie nous a accompagn\u00e9s, mon conjoint et moi, pour aller souper. Alors que nous nous dirigions vers la voiture apr\u00e8s avoir mang\u00e9, elle m\u2019a demand\u00e9 : \u00ab Dis-moi, il boit toujours autant ? \u00bb Arm\u00e9e d\u2019un faux sourire et d\u2019un ton d\u00e9sinvolte, j\u2019ai r\u00e9torqu\u00e9 : \u00ab Oh non ! Il boit simplement \u00e0 l\u2019occasion. \u00bb J\u2019\u00e9tais triste, en col\u00e8re et g\u00ean\u00e9e ; mais j\u2019\u00e9tais dans le d\u00e9ni total en ce qui avait trait \u00e0 son alcoolisme. Elle m\u2019a encourag\u00e9e d\u2019essayer Al\u2011Anon ; remarque \u00e0 laquelle j\u2019ai r\u00e9pondu : \u00ab Pourquoi est-ce que je devrais aller \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon ? C\u2019est lui qui a le probl\u00e8me ! \u00bb C\u2019\u00e9tait tout ce que j\u2019\u00e9tais pr\u00eate \u00e0 admettre. Elle m\u2019a bri\u00e8vement expliqu\u00e9 ce qu\u2019\u00e9tait Al\u2011Anon, mais elle n\u2019a pas mentionn\u00e9 pourquoi c\u2019\u00e9tait un programme qui me conviendrait. C\u2019\u00e9tait l\u2019\u00e9l\u00e9phant dans le salon.<\/p>\n<p>Quelques ann\u00e9es plus tard, un jeudi soir, toute ma rage et ma frustration caus\u00e9es par ce sentiment d\u2019impuissance face \u00e0 sa consommation d\u2019alcool sont remont\u00e9es \u00e0 la surface et ont fini par exploser comme un volcan. J\u2019\u00e9tais devenue folle, hurlant \u00e0 tue-t\u00eate et le traitant de tous les noms. Je lui ai dit que je souhaitais sa mort et que je souhaitais ma propre mort parce que je ne supportais plus de me sentir mal dans ma peau. Je me souviens de cet incident comme d\u2019une exp\u00e9rience surr\u00e9elle. Je me suis dit : \u00ab Qui \u00e9tait cette femme ? \u00bb Le jour suivant, j\u2019ai rassembl\u00e9 du courage pour aller assister \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al\u2011Anon. Quel cadeau ! Quel miracle ! Je n\u2019avais jamais r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que j\u2019\u00e9tais impuissante face \u00e0 l\u2019alcool. Cette premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union a eu un impact profond et durable sur moi. De son c\u00f4t\u00e9, mon mari \u00e9tait mortifi\u00e9 de savoir que j\u2019\u00e9tais all\u00e9e \u00e0 une r\u00e9union, parce que maintenant, il craignait que tout le monde d\u00e9couvre qu\u2019il \u00e9tait alcoolique. Nous \u00e9tions tous deux convaincus qu\u2019il avait cach\u00e9 sa consommation d\u2019alcool des yeux d\u2019autrui. Aujourd\u2019hui, je sais que l\u2019alcoolisme est vraiment un mal familial.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Jeanine G., Louisiane <\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, juin 2018<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18527","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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