{"id":18521,"date":"2018-09-01T09:14:11","date_gmt":"2018-09-01T13:14:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=18521\/"},"modified":"2021-09-08T11:05:47","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T15:05:47","slug":"je-ne-pouvais-pas-faire-face-tout-seul-a-lalcoolisme-de-ma-conjointe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-ne-pouvais-pas-faire-face-tout-seul-a-lalcoolisme-de-ma-conjointe\/","title":{"rendered":"Je ne pouvais pas faire face tout seul \u00e0 l\u2019alcoolisme de ma conjointe"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es de mariage, j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que la consommation d\u2019alcool de ma conjointe \u00e9tait en train de devenir un probl\u00e8me s\u00e9rieux. Un conseiller familial a insist\u00e9 pour que ma femme assiste \u00e0 trente r\u00e9unions AA en trente 30 jours et que j\u2019assiste \u00e0 autant de r\u00e9unions Al-Anon que je pouvais pendant ces m\u00eames trente jours. Nous nous y sommes pli\u00e9s \u00e0 contrec\u0153ur. Certes, j\u2019\u00e9tais une personne contr\u00f4lante. J\u2019avais \u00e9t\u00e9 pilote militaire et j\u2019avais appris que, chaque fois que ma vie s\u2019\u00e9cartait \u00ab de la ligne centrale \u00bb, je devais y rem\u00e9dier rapidement. Cependant, j\u2019\u00e9tais totalement d\u00e9concert\u00e9 par le fait de ne pas pouvoir trouver une solution \u00e0 la consommation d\u2019alcool de mon \u00e9pouse.<\/p>\n<p>Quand je suis all\u00e9 \u00e0 Al-Anon quelque temps plus tard, ma vie s\u2019est transform\u00e9e. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 travailler sur les Douze \u00c9tapes et je continue \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions chaque fois que j\u2019en ai l\u2019occasion. Quand ma femme a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions AA, je me suis dit que nous avions enfin retrouv\u00e9 la paix. Malheureusement, elle a finalement commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 trouver des moyens d\u2019\u00e9viter d\u2019aller \u00e0 ses r\u00e9unions. Les choses sont all\u00e9es de mal en pis quand elle a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 tomber en syncope. Il semblait que la lune de miel \u00e9tait termin\u00e9e, mais elle a fini par accepter de suivre un traitement en milieu hospitalier. \u00c0 ce jour, elle a \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e0 la maison pendant moins de deux semaines.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai appris qu\u2019il n\u2019y a pas de promesses ou de garanties pour l\u2019avenir. Je ne peux pas n\u00e9gocier avec l\u2019alcoolisme. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 ce processus, mes outils Al-Anon ont \u00e9t\u00e9 mis \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9preuve, de m\u00eame que la foi que j\u2019ai en ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure. Toutefois, gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 ce programme, j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 la force de surmonter cette temp\u00eate. Mon voyage n\u2019a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 heurs. Il a apport\u00e9 la douleur de la nouvelle croissance et de l\u2019humilit\u00e9. Je crois toujours en l\u2019amour qui nous lie, ma femme et moi \u2013 en d\u00e9pit de l\u2019alcoolisme \u2013, et je crois qu\u2019ensemble, nous gagnerons cette bataille !<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Rick H., G\u00e9orgie<\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, mai 2018<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18521","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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