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Una de las innumerables destrezas nuevas que comenc\u00e9 a aprender cuando llegu\u00e9 a Al‑Anon fue manejar mis expectativas. Mi necesidad de mejorar en este aspecto era especialmente evidente cada vez que anticipaba una visita a mi hijo alcoh\u00f3lico, quien vive en otra parte del pa\u00eds. De antemano, elaboraba la visita en mi mente, imaginando a nuestros familiares riendo juntos, haciendo cosas divertidas, hablando calmada y cari\u00f1osamente de nuestras vidas.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca fue as\u00ed. La conversaci\u00f3n se pon\u00eda tensa constantemente. Era dif\u00edcil encontrar temas seguros. Nuestro hijo parec\u00eda que no le gustaba hablar mucho de su trabajo, de su vida social, de si estaba practicando su programa ni de ninguna otra cosa. Particularmente no le interesaba hacer ninguna de las cosas que yo pensaba que ser\u00edan divertidas. Mis prometedoras expectativas no guardaban absolutamente ning\u00fan parecido con lo que realmente suced\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Consecuentemente, estas visitas me dejaron sinti\u00e9ndome herida, decepcionada, frustrada, triste, arrepentida, desesperanzada e incluso un poco enojada. Definitivamente ten\u00eda que poner la cabeza en un mejor lugar.<\/p>\n

Con la gu\u00eda de mi Madrina, comenc\u00e9 a estudiar la literatura de Al‑Anon sobre el tema de las expectativas. Pronto descubr\u00ed que hay una estrecha relaci\u00f3n entre mis expectativas y mi nivel de aceptaci\u00f3n \u2015o de falta de esta\u2015 con respecto a las circunstancias de mi vida. Mis expectativas eran poco realistas porque no hab\u00eda aceptado realmente las realidades de la vida de mi hijo y el impacto de estas en la m\u00eda. Simplemente estaba haci\u00e9ndome de la vista gorda en cuanto a lo que realmente eran las cosas \u2015sin negaci\u00f3n, pero tampoco sin aceptaci\u00f3n total\u2015.<\/p>\n

En preparaci\u00f3n para la visita m\u00e1s reciente, me dediqu\u00e9 de lleno a estudiar, a orar y reflexionar, a escribir en mi diario, y asum\u00ed el compromiso de buscar constantemente la gu\u00eda de mi Poder Superior. Le ped\u00ed a Dios que me guiara en cada palabra que yo dec\u00eda y en todo lo que hac\u00eda. Aunque esperaba que la visita por lo menos fuera amistosa y agradable, ya no ten\u00eda en la mente esas esplendorosas im\u00e1genes que no se basaban en la realidad.<\/p>\n

La visita result\u00f3 mejor que todas las anteriores, y luego me sent\u00ed un poco en paz. Se hab\u00edan dado momentos de verdadera conexi\u00f3n y otros per\u00edodos en los que cada uno de nosotros simplemente segu\u00eda nuestro propio camino, cedi\u00e9ndonos bastante espacio el uno al otro. Me relaj\u00e9 y no trat\u00e9 de forzar las cosas en un molde que nunca encajar\u00eda en nuestra vida. Espero que las visitas futuras sean a\u00fan mejores, pero estoy agradecida de haber aprendido una nueva forma de hacerle frente a mis expectativas, la cual puedo aplicar en todos los aspectos de mi vida.<\/p>\n

An\u00f3nimo<\/em>
\nThe Forum<\/em> \u2013 junio de 2017<\/p>\n<\/div>

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