{"id":43086,"date":"2024-08-26T12:09:27","date_gmt":"2024-08-26T16:09:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=43086"},"modified":"2024-08-26T12:09:27","modified_gmt":"2024-08-26T16:09:27","slug":"mi-ser-perdido-y-encontrado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/mi-ser-perdido-y-encontrado\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi ser perdido y encontrado"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Yo era adicta a mi hijo.<\/p>\n<p>El momento en el que llegu\u00e9 a esa conclusi\u00f3n fue importante para m\u00ed. Durante a\u00f1os, no hab\u00eda podido ver que mi hijo no era su enfermedad. Pens\u00e9 que solo necesitaba \u00absolucionar\u00bb sus problemas de salud mental, pero ahora me doy cuenta de que \u00e9l es un alcoh\u00f3lico y que yo he jugado un papel importante en la enfermedad familiar. He estado trabajando con mi Madrina de Al\u2011Anon y, cuando la conoc\u00ed recientemente, me di cuenta de que mi hijo es <em>mi <\/em>adicci\u00f3n. Aprend\u00ed que los alcoh\u00f3licos son adictos al alcohol y que yo soy adicta a la gente. No ten\u00eda idea de que era tan adicta a mi hijo.<\/p>\n<p>Durante a\u00f1os, he estado preocupada por \u00e9l, pregunt\u00e1ndome constantemente si est\u00e1 en la c\u00e1rcel o conduciendo ebrio y lastimando a alguien o a s\u00ed mismo. Era muy agotador tener que recordarle que llegara a sus citas en el tribunal y llamara a su oficial de libertad condicional. \u00c9l llegaba a mi casa y vomitaba por haber bebido la noche anterior. Todo esto me romp\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n. Me perd\u00ed a m\u00ed misma en el proceso.<\/p>\n<p>Mi hijo tiene ahora casi 20 a\u00f1os. Yo estoy tratando de recordar qui\u00e9n soy. Gracias a esta revelaci\u00f3n reciente (que soy adicta a mi hijo), tengo la oportunidad de recuperarme. Estoy en el camino de redescubrir lo que me gusta y lo que me hace sentirme feliz y realizada. Me da un poco de miedo, pero s\u00e9 que florecer\u00e9 si lo tomo un d\u00eda a la vez y me concentro en m\u00ed misma. Estoy aprendiendo a dejar de controlarlo a \u00e9l para ver si \u00e9l est\u00e1 bien. Y estoy tratando de aprender a vigilarme a m\u00ed misma para ver si <em>yo <\/em>estoy bien y descubrir lo que yo necesito.<\/p>\n<p>Estoy muy agradecida de que el programa de Al\u2011Anon, as\u00ed como las personas en las reuniones y el Poder Superior en mi vida, sean las luces que me gu\u00edan en mi recuperaci\u00f3n. A medida que me desprendo con amor, establezco l\u00edmites y me concentro en m\u00ed misma, tambi\u00e9n le doy a mi hijo espacio para asumir responsabilidad por su propia vida. Lo he visto mostrar un poco de madurez y ahora tiene la oportunidad de descubrirse a s\u00ed mismo en el tiempo de su Poder Superior.<\/p>\n<p>Estoy aprendiendo el lema \u00abSuelta las riendas y entr\u00e9gaselas a Dios\u00bb, \u00a1y espero encontrarme a m\u00ed misma nuevamente!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Anna C.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>agosto de 2024<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet<\/strong><strong>\u00edn<\/strong><strong>, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia,\u00a0EE. 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