{"id":4281,"date":"2017-04-20T09:19:37","date_gmt":"2017-04-20T13:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4281\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T11:40:28","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:40:28","slug":"mujer-rompio-patron-de-relaciones-abusivas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/mujer-rompio-patron-de-relaciones-abusivas\/","title":{"rendered":"Mujer rompi\u00f3 patr\u00f3n de relaciones abusivas"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Yo sufr\u00eda en una relaci\u00f3n verbalmente abusiva \u2015que no era la primera\u2015 cuando trat\u00e9 de unirme a Al-Anon. Hab\u00eda o\u00eddo que me pod\u00eda ayudar con mis problemas. Fui a una reuni\u00f3n y al salir le pregunt\u00e9 a una mujer que si para unirme al grupo ten\u00eda que conocer a alguien que bebiera. Me dijo que s\u00ed. Desilusionada, llam\u00e9 por tel\u00e9fono a la oficina central de mi Zona e hice la misma pregunta. Recib\u00ed la misma respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de diez a\u00f1os y de otras dos relaciones abusivas y obsesivas, hice un gran esfuerzo y asist\u00ed a una reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon con la esperanza de que finalmente cumpliera con el requisito. El desastre m\u00e1s reciente en mi relaci\u00f3n fue con un hombre que hab\u00eda decidido dejar de beber desde hac\u00eda trece a\u00f1os. Yo no sab\u00eda si eso significaba que \u00e9l era alcoh\u00f3lico, pero decid\u00ed que eso ten\u00eda que ser suficiente para entrar a la reuni\u00f3n. Estaba desesperada.<\/p>\n<p>Para mi alivio, nadie me pregunt\u00f3 por mis credenciales. La mujer a quien le ped\u00ed que fuera mi Madrina no me pregunt\u00f3 si yo conoc\u00eda a alg\u00fan alcoh\u00f3lico. Con el tiempo le dije lo que hab\u00eda ocurrido diez a\u00f1os antes. Ella se mostr\u00f3 consternada, y me dijo que si alguien ven\u00eda a las reuniones y se identificaba con los dem\u00e1s, entonces all\u00ed era donde necesitaba estar.<\/p>\n<p>Ya tengo m\u00e1s de cinco a\u00f1os de asistir a reuniones y practicar los Pasos, y el programa ha cambiado mi vida. Todav\u00eda no s\u00e9 si hay alcoh\u00f3licos en mi familia, pero supongo que realmente cumplo con el requisito porque estoy en una relaci\u00f3n maravillosa con un hombre que ha estado sobrio en A.A. durante once a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>No hace falta decirlo, pero les doy la bienvenida a reci\u00e9n llegados con los brazos abiertos, y si me preguntan si Al\u2011Anon es donde deben estar, les digo que eso es algo que les corresponde a ellos decidir. Los animo a que prueben con diferentes reuniones y les digo que si sienten que all\u00ed es donde deben estar, entonces all\u00ed es donde tienen que estar.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora s\u00e9 que durante todos esos a\u00f1os yo cumpl\u00eda con el requisito. Cada una de esas relaciones dif\u00edciles fue con hijos adultos de alcoh\u00f3licos. El alcoholismo hab\u00eda afectado mi vida de manera profunda y definitiva. Simplemente en ese momento yo no lo sab\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>An\u00f3nimo<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[209],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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