{"id":38113,"date":"2022-12-29T14:33:54","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:33:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=38113"},"modified":"2022-12-29T14:33:54","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:33:54","slug":"me-amas-hoy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/me-amas-hoy\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00ab\u00bfMe amas hoy?\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Al criarme en un hogar con alcoholismo, viv\u00ed diariamente en medio de la inestabilidad y la inseguridad. A diferencia de los ni\u00f1os que se criaron escuchando que alguien con los brazos abiertos les dec\u00eda que los amaba \u00abhasta la luna y de regreso\u00bb, o \u00abas\u00ed de grande\u00bb, yo le preguntaba a mi madre \u00ab\u00bfme amas hoy?\u00bb, solo para ver que me respond\u00eda encogiendo los hombros y diciendo: \u00abEh, lo mismo de siempre\u00bb. Muri\u00f3 cuando yo ten\u00eda 15 a\u00f1os y nunca obtuve una respuesta diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando la bebida de mi hijo se sali\u00f3 de control, rebat\u00ed con toda la furia que no hab\u00eda expresado en mi ni\u00f1ez. Sermone\u00e9, castigu\u00e9 y negoci\u00e9 con Dios. Buscaba en la habitaci\u00f3n de mi hijo; husmeaba en sus cajones, armario y autom\u00f3vil; rebuscaba en sus bolsillos; lo pon\u00eda a prueba y trataba de oler su aliento cuando se acercaba. Lo engatusaba, lo menospreciaba y lo amenazaba. \u00c9l ment\u00eda, robaba y se refugiaba en su habitaci\u00f3n. Estaba enojado y me excluy\u00f3 por completo. Parec\u00eda que lo hab\u00eda perdido. Solo cuando me di cuenta de que me estaba perdiendo a m\u00ed misma, las cosas empezaron a cambiar.<\/p>\n<p>En Al\u2011Anon, aprend\u00ed a empezar a cuidarme y amarme. El progreso fue lento al principio porque pens\u00e9 que no era digna de amor. Sent\u00eda que hab\u00eda fallado como hija <em>y <\/em>como madre. Pero a medida que me volv\u00eda m\u00e1s consciente de c\u00f3mo le transfer\u00ed dolor a mi hijo a trav\u00e9s de mi comportamiento, comenc\u00e9 a cambiar, a retroceder y dejarle tener la dignidad y la autodeterminaci\u00f3n a las que tiene derecho.<\/p>\n<p>Recientemente, mi hijo me dijo que hab\u00eda probado la hero\u00edna hace varios meses. Esper\u00f3 mi respuesta. Esper\u00e9 a mi Poder Superior. En lugar de estar enojada, molesta o herida, lo mir\u00e9 a los ojos y vi a mi peque\u00f1o, a mi hijo. Me escuch\u00e9 a m\u00ed misma decir: \u00abGracias por compartir eso. Gracias por confiar en m\u00ed. Te amo. Siempre te he amado y siempre te amar\u00e9\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de Al\u2011Anon, nunca hubiera podido escuchar que lo que realmente estaba diciendo era: \u00ab\u00bfMe amas hoy?\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Deirdre B., Nueva York<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>noviembre de 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet\u00edn, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,208,213],"tags":[434,432],"class_list":["post-38113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-hijos-alcoholicos","category-para-padres-alcoholicos","tag-enojado","tag-hijos-adultos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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