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Mi relaci\u00f3n con mi madre hab\u00eda sido muy dif\u00edcil desde que era adolescente. Ambas hab\u00edamos sido afectadas por el alcoholismo de diferentes maneras. Ella trataba de decirme c\u00f3mo vivir mi vida, y eso no me gustaba. Cuanto m\u00e1s yo maduraba, peor se volv\u00eda la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, me cas\u00e9 y me mud\u00e9 de Argentina a los Estados Unidos. Despu\u00e9s de mi divorcio, comenc\u00e9 a asistir a Al\u2011Anon. Llevaba unos seis meses en el programa cuando mi madre se invit\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma a pasar tres semanas conmigo. Su plan era que pas\u00e1ramos las vacaciones en mi casa y luego, en enero, ir\u00edamos a Florida a pasar otras dos semanas, las dos compartiendo la misma habitaci\u00f3n de hotel.<\/p>\n

Para poder sobrevivir, desarroll\u00e9 un gran plan propio. No iba a decirle a mi madre que estaba asistiendo Al\u2011Anon, as\u00ed que le dije que la asociaci\u00f3n profesional a la que pertenec\u00eda ten\u00eda una convenci\u00f3n y que asistir\u00eda al \u00faltimo orador de cada d\u00eda. En cambio, fui a las reuniones de Al\u2011Anon. Como era enero, todas las reuniones eran sobre el Primer Paso. Despu\u00e9s de la tercera o cuarta reuni\u00f3n, me di cuenta de que necesitaba aplicar el Primer Paso en mi relaci\u00f3n con mi madre. Admit\u00ed que era incapaz de afrontar sola a mi madre y su actitud controladora. Cuando comenc\u00e9 a aceptarla como era, comenc\u00e9 a sentirme mejor.<\/p>\n

Inmediatamente despu\u00e9s de darme cuenta de esto, una noche, cuando regres\u00e9 de una reuni\u00f3n, mi madre me dijo: \u00abEsos seminarios son muy buenos para ti. Cuando regresas de ellos, tienes una sonrisa en tu rostro y no est\u00e1s tensa. \u00bfTienen algo que ver con el libro que lees en el ba\u00f1o?\u00bb (Estaba leyendo Valor para cambiar<\/em> [SB-16]<\/a> en el \u00fanico lugar donde ten\u00eda privacidad). Fue en ese momento que nuestra relaci\u00f3n comenz\u00f3 a cambiar. Le habl\u00e9 de Al\u2011Anon y, como ella quer\u00eda aprender ingl\u00e9s, obtuve su copia de Valor para cambiar<\/em> tanto en ingl\u00e9s como en espa\u00f1ol. Empez\u00f3 a leer los libros todos los d\u00edas y, despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, decidi\u00f3 ir a reuniones en Argentina.<\/p>\n

Gracias a Al\u2011Anon, yo cambi\u00e9 y mi madre tambi\u00e9n cambi\u00f3. Durante los \u00faltimos 25 a\u00f1os de su vida, tuvimos la relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s maravillosa.<\/p>\n

Por Alicia D., Pensilvania<\/em><\/p>\n

The Forum, <\/em>marzo de 2022<\/p>\n

Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet\u00edn, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0Reimpreso con el permiso de The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>

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