{"id":25794,"date":"2019-07-30T13:09:12","date_gmt":"2019-07-30T17:09:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=25794"},"modified":"2020-07-27T16:26:49","modified_gmt":"2020-07-27T20:26:49","slug":"saliendo-del-dolor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/saliendo-del-dolor\/","title":{"rendered":"Saliendo del dolor"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Crec\u00ed en un hogar lleno de violencia, adicci\u00f3n a las drogas, alcoholismo, abuso y abandono. Estaba muy confundida. Incluso necesitaba que alguien me ense\u00f1ara las cosas b\u00e1sicas de higiene, pero no hab\u00eda nadie. Cuando llegu\u00e9 a la escuela intermedia, yo sab\u00eda que mi madre me odiaba. Siempre estaba golpe\u00e1ndome o grit\u00e1ndome. Yo ten\u00eda 15 a\u00f1os la \u00faltima vez que me peg\u00f3. Ten\u00eda marcas de cintur\u00f3n por todo mi cuerpo y marcas de la hebilla del cintur\u00f3n en mi rostro. Finalmente, ella hab\u00eda perdido el control.<\/p>\n<p>Sanar ha sido un camino duro, pero le he dado la bienvenida con los brazos abiertos. Estaba cansada de sentirme menos que y de llorar sin raz\u00f3n aparente. No pod\u00eda olvidar los viejos recuerdos de abuso. La pregunta <em>por qu\u00e9<\/em> siempre estaba en mi mente. Ya siendo adulta, descubr\u00ed a Al-Anon. Al principio, fue dif\u00edcil enfrentar con honestidad los malos tratos en mi ni\u00f1ez, pero decid\u00ed que, si eso era lo que necesitaba hacer para vivir una vida normal, entonces eso era lo que deb\u00eda hacer. Enfrent\u00e9 cada incidente atravesando muchas l\u00e1grimas y recuerdos dolorosos. Aprender acerca del alcoholismo y lo que le hace a la familia fue algo que me abri\u00f3 los ojos. Nuestra familia estaba rota, al igual que cada uno de nosotros.<\/p>\n<p>Aprender acerca de lo que el alcohol y las drogas le hacen al cerebro me ayud\u00f3 a enfrentar cu\u00e1n enfermo estaba mi pap\u00e1 verdaderamente. Tambi\u00e9n me ayud\u00f3 a dejar ir el coraje que sent\u00eda hacia \u00e9l por darnos una ni\u00f1ez de tanto maltrato. Siempre me hab\u00edan echado la culpa por los malos tratos que sufr\u00ed, y tambi\u00e9n porque pap\u00e1 beb\u00eda y usaba drogas hasta estar enfurecido. Me tom\u00f3 ir a muchas reuniones de Al-Anon para aceptar verdaderamente que nunca fue mi culpa que Pap\u00e1 luchara con una adicci\u00f3n. Nunca fue mi culpa que mi madre escogiera quedarse en un matrimonio violento y adicto.<\/p>\n<p>Mi trabajo hoy es \u00abSoltar las riendas y entreg\u00e1rselas a Dios\u00bb para que se encargue de aquello que no me toca a m\u00ed. Trabajar en m\u00ed misma es un trabajo a tiempo completo. Tuve que aprender a amarme a m\u00ed misma y convertirme en mi propia mejor amiga. Todos esos apodos horribles que me pusieron eran mentiras. Me crie rodeada de muchas personas lastimadas, necesitadas, pero ya no soy una de ellas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Daisy P., California<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>junio de 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,213],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25794","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-padres-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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