{"id":19073,"date":"2018-09-27T13:18:57","date_gmt":"2018-09-27T17:18:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=19073\/"},"modified":"2018-09-28T14:29:56","modified_gmt":"2018-09-28T18:29:56","slug":"no-podia-abandonar-a-mi-esposa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/no-podia-abandonar-a-mi-esposa\/","title":{"rendered":"No pod\u00eda abandonar a mi esposa"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Me crie en un hogar disfuncional, as\u00ed que conoc\u00eda muy bien el caos. Siempre sent\u00ed que algo andaba mal, pero no sab\u00eda lo que era ni tampoco c\u00f3mo arreglarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando ten\u00eda 20 a\u00f1os, tuve mi primer hijo. A los 25 me divorci\u00e9 y ten\u00eda dos ni\u00f1os varones que criar. A los 30, me cas\u00e9 con mi segunda alcoh\u00f3lica. Ella era una buena persona, manten\u00eda un trabajo, ayudaba mucho con la crianza de mis dos hijos, y yo la amaba. Su alcoholismo empeor\u00f3 luego de que los hijos se fueron de casa y yo pens\u00e9 en divorciarme, pero no pod\u00eda abandonar a mi esposa. A los 50 a\u00f1os, mi vida se hab\u00eda vuelto ingobernable y yo no sab\u00eda a d\u00f3nde ir. A los 54, debo haber tenido suficiente ira, resentimiento y ansiedad como para saber que necesitaba ayuda y hacer algo al respecto \u2014lo que fuera\u2014.<\/p>\n<p>Por medio de m\u00faltiples visitas a las salas de emergencia y centros de rehabilitaci\u00f3n, escuch\u00e9 acerca de Al\u2011Anon. Pero yo siempre supuse que mi esposa era la que ten\u00eda el problema, no yo. No obstante, s\u00ed me di cuenta de que lo que yo estaba haciendo no estaba funcionando, as\u00ed que, en enero de 2015 fui a mi primera reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon. La gente era amable y sus historias eran muy parecidas a las m\u00edas. La primera cosa a la que me aferr\u00e9 fue una lista titulada \u00abLo que debes y no debes hacer\u00bb. De inmediato supe que yo estaba haciendo casi todos los \u00abno debes\u00bb y ninguno de los \u00abdebes\u00bb. Un miembro sugiri\u00f3 que cada semana intentara pensar acerca de uno de los elementos en la lista de \u00abdebes\u00bb y uno en la lista de \u00ablo que no debes\u00bb, as\u00ed que imprim\u00ed la lista y la pegu\u00e9 en mi pared. Muy pronto pude sorprenderme a m\u00ed mismo antes de hacer uno de los \u00abno debes\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Tras mi primera reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon, me sent\u00ed mejor acerca de la vida, y las cosas ya no parec\u00edan tan irremediables. Pensaba que, si una reuni\u00f3n hab\u00eda sido buena, entonces dos ser\u00edan algo mejor. Tambi\u00e9n conoc\u00ed a un hombre sabio en el programa quien me dirigi\u00f3 a una reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon que era especialmente para hombres. Me dijo que cre\u00eda que el programa realmente no despegaba hasta que uno adoptara los Doce Pasos.<\/p>\n<p>Mi esposa muri\u00f3 debido a su enfermedad aproximadamente un a\u00f1o despu\u00e9s de que yo decidiera tener un Padrino y comenzar a trabajar los Doce Pasos de Al\u2011Anon. El tiempo oportuno de Dios me salv\u00f3 de una vida de pensamientos negativos. Todav\u00eda voy a reuniones de Al\u2011Anon y doy servicio voluntario en el programa. Ahora tengo una buena idea de c\u00f3mo ayudar a los dem\u00e1s y tambi\u00e9n c\u00f3mo cuidar bien de m\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por John H., Texas<\/em><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Al-Anon se enfrenta al alcoholismo 2019<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[209,285],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos","category-safa"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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