{"id":18525,"date":"2018-09-01T09:35:44","date_gmt":"2018-09-01T13:35:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=18525\/"},"modified":"2021-03-04T13:58:04","modified_gmt":"2021-03-04T18:58:04","slug":"el-elefante-en-medio-de-la-habitacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/el-elefante-en-medio-de-la-habitacion\/","title":{"rendered":"El elefante en medio de la habitaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Hace muchos a\u00f1os, una amiga fue a cenar con mi esposo y conmigo. Despu\u00e9s de la cena, mientras camin\u00e1bamos de vuelta hacia nuestro veh\u00edculo, me pregunt\u00f3: \u00ab\u00bfAcaso \u00e9l siempre bebe as\u00ed?\u00bb. Le respond\u00ed con una sonrisa pegada a la cara y una voz falsa y casual: \u00abOh, no, \u00e9l solamente bebe socialmente\u00bb. Yo estaba triste, enojada y avergonzada, pero tambi\u00e9n estaba viviendo en negaci\u00f3n acerca de su alcoholismo. Ella me anim\u00f3 a intentar el programa de Al\u2011Anon, y yo le respond\u00ed: \u00ab\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 debo ir yo a Al\u2011Anon? Es \u00e9l quien tiene el problema\u00bb. Eso era todo lo que estaba dispuesta a admitir. Ella explic\u00f3 brevemente lo que era Al\u2011Anon, pero no mencion\u00f3 por qu\u00e9 yo podr\u00eda cualificar para ir. \u00c9se era el elefante en medio de la habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Un par de a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s, durante un jueves por la noche, toda mi rabia, frustraci\u00f3n y sentido de impotencia sobre su forma de beber hirvieron en m\u00ed e hicieron erupci\u00f3n como un volc\u00e1n. Me convert\u00ed en una mujer desquiciada, chillando y maldici\u00e9ndolo a \u00e9l. Le dije que deseaba que se muriera y que deseaba morirme tambi\u00e9n, porque ya no pod\u00eda vivir dentro de mi propia piel. Recuerdo ese incidente como si hubiese sido una experiencia fuera de mi cuerpo. Pens\u00e9: <em>\u00bfC\u00f3mo es que puedo yo ser esa mujer?<\/em> Al d\u00eda siguiente, me arm\u00e9 de valor para ir a mi primera reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 regalo&#8230; y qu\u00e9 milagro! Jam\u00e1s se me hab\u00eda ocurrido que yo era incapaz de afrontar sola el alcohol. Esa primera reuni\u00f3n tuvo un efecto profundo y duradero en m\u00ed. Mientras tanto, mi esposo se sent\u00eda mortificado porque yo hab\u00eda ido a una reuni\u00f3n, pues tem\u00eda que ahora todo el mundo se iba a enterar de que \u00e9l era un alcoh\u00f3lico. Ambos cre\u00edamos que \u00e9l escond\u00eda su alcoholismo ante las miradas de la gente. Hoy en d\u00eda s\u00e9 que el alcoholismo es verdaderamente una enfermedad de la familia.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Jeanine G., Luisiana<\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, junio de 2018<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,209],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18525","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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