{"id":14425,"date":"2018-02-01T10:12:41","date_gmt":"2018-02-01T15:12:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=14425\/"},"modified":"2021-05-25T09:25:45","modified_gmt":"2021-05-25T13:25:45","slug":"actuar-como-madre-o-propiciar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/actuar-como-madre-o-propiciar\/","title":{"rendered":"Actuar como madre o propiciar"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Cuando vine por primera vez a Al-Anon, pas\u00e9 mucho tiempo luchando con el t\u00e9rmino: \u00abpropiciar\u00bb. Soy madre. Definitivamente el papel de una madre es propiciar a sus hijos, \u00bfno? Ha sido una lucha entender, y a\u00fan m\u00e1s, aceptar, que el comportamiento que yo ve\u00eda como el de una buena madre en realidad era malo. Toda mi vida me he inclinado a creer que una madre buena anima a sus hijos, les arregla sus problemas, enfrenta sus retos y cocina y limpia para ellos. Definitivamente una buena madre est\u00e1 al servicio de sus hijos.<\/p>\n<p>Con la ayuda de Al-Anon, he empezado a darme cuenta de que ser una buena madre significa amar a mis hijos, pero tambi\u00e9n significa dejarlos vivir su vida. Mis hijos deben tener el derecho de aprender las lecciones de la vida a su tiempo, a su manera. Les debo eso. Hacer todo por ellos, involuntariamente o no, les causar\u00eda m\u00e1s da\u00f1o que beneficio. Al poner la vida de mis hijos delante de la m\u00eda, estaba perjudicando a todos los dem\u00e1s y especialmente a m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Qu\u00e9 maravilloso fue el momento en que me di cuenta de que lo que estaba haciendo por mis hijos era en realidad lo contrario al por qu\u00e9 lo estaba haciendo! \u00a1Cielos! \u00a1Qu\u00e9 libre me siento al quitarme ese peso de encima! No s\u00f3lo pude detener la agotadora experiencia de hacerlo todo por todos ellos, sino que eso me dio la oportunidad de examinarme a m\u00ed misma y permitirles a mis hijos la libertad de vivir su vida. Me di cuenta de que entonces ten\u00eda el tiempo y el deseo de fijarme en m\u00ed misma, de cuidarme y de definirme.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Stephanie W. \u2013 Ontario, Canad\u00e1<\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, septiembre de 2017<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[208],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-para-hijos-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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